Fell out with husband, feeling massive mummy guilt

If anyone wants to wind up the Grans that's not the subject to chose. Politics is a better bet!

Let's wind up the Grans for a bit of post Christmas sport...

ITS NOT REAL. ITS A BOT.

Some uncalled for comments I think.
Claire, you and your mil should not be sniping at each other on whats app, grow up the pair of you, you wanted your husband to side with you against his mother. Why? Nothing to do with him at least he was sensible. Mil over the top, retorting on Whats app, she should have rung you if she was hurt.in future you pick up the phone, sort it. Was it worth it to score a point?
We all do things in the heat of the moment, learn from it and move on.
Its very easy for such a trivial thing to split families up, daft as it sounds.

I agree with Oopsadaisy.

Being physically sick was probably because the row just tipped over the excitement of Christmas Day. Tummy tension. Be the bigger person and acknowledge how the misunderstanding happened, make up with your DH and apologise. At nine years old she may immediately be thinking you're going to divorce.

And stop trying to be perfect. No one is.

Not sure where ‘going’ came from.

Sit your daughter down and tell her what happened, she is old enough to understand that sometimes an adult (her Grandmother) can misunderstand something that is written rather than spoken.
Tell her that there was no big drama with your husband and that everything is going now ok and that she needn’t worry any more.

A good lesson to her and you about the dangers of writing somethings on social media.

Hear, hear.

Another long poorly written post about nothing

You lost me at dudmtbgearbit I'm afraid.

I know and we didn't intend for them to hear, she walked in on it. We don't argue infront of them, we went upstairs while they were downstairs. What I'm concerned of is she was physically sick with worry and I'm not sure how to help her anxiety. I don't know where it comes from. She's usually a very hsppy little girl, upbeat girl.

She is probably thinking it far more serious than it was, she is old enough for you to explain that adults argue and fall out sometimes but it doesn’t mean that you do not love each other or that you are going to split up.

It should be a lesson to you not to argue when children can hear.

More help to be found on MN.
We are well over such traumas.