I've used my mother in law's recipe for over 50 years. When my husband died 6 years ago I thought perhaps it was time to start some new traditions, so I found a different recipe. Not content with that I went for an arctic scene and decorated it with a polar bear and shards of ice. The words "lead balloon" doesn't describe the reaction. This year I suggested to my daughter that I might change the decoration again. Her answer was "White icing, silver balls, Father Christmas and a Christmas Tree!" I know when I'm beaten.