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What would you do if?....Lots of fun and talking about their thoughts, possibilities and confidence.

Lots & lots of praise and i would tell someone else who would praise them too.

I like to give them a decision, instead of never giving them options - things such as where to go on a day out, what they'd like for dinner and what clothes to buy for them too - from a selection of options of course.
I think it is so important to give them freedom of choice as this supports the fact they can do things from a young age and gives them the confidence to speak up for themselves

Tell them often how clever they are and always make time to listen to them.

Comfort them when they cry, cheer when they achieve something no matter how small and discipline them when they are naughty. Tell them that they can be what ever they want to be. But most of all tell them they are the most precious thing in the world.

Always listen to your child do not brush them aside they are important..

Really listen to them and ensure they feel comfortable with everything they do x

Don't shout at or punish children without explaining why you disapprove of what they are doing and giving an explanation of what they should do instead. Try to find something to praise in their actions and distract them from bad behaviour by being positive about something else.

Show an interest in what they do and praise the results. Take them out to enjoy the countryside, pick up sticks, stones etc anduse their imagination as to what they might become.If they do pictures ask them what they have drawn and encourage the conversation even if you can't see that it looks like they say

When your child has come home saying they did not get the prize for the best fancy dress, they thought they were the best, say that they are the best in your mind but someone else has to win they all have to have a chance of being a winner to make more happy faces.

Always be interested in whatbtheybhave to say.
Praise them.
Encourage friendships

Listen lots, criticise little and always show an interest in what they are doing. Encourage them to see their own potential. Give them your time, something hard pressed parents haven't always got. Tell them you love them.

Listen to them, laugh with them not at them. Take their concerns seriously, praise them, help to know they are special and unique but most of all be prepared to give them your time..a precious thing in a busy world.

Listen to them. Take what they say seriously, never brush away their worries. Laugh with them, never at them. Let them come to you for hugs, never insist on them.

Involve children in decision making and give them choices. It makes children feel important to be involved in family decisions and helps build confidence, I give my son choices and show him i value his opinion by listening to him and taking on board his opinions. I consult him on things such as what meals we might have that week, to what we should do at the weekend.

Play various card games together an board games too. This can teach strategy, numeracy, logic and communications skills among others, which can increase their confidence when it comes to dealing with other problems.

I was never, ever told I was clever. I was never told I was pretty,cute, beautiful...... I could go on and on.

My parents were never the type to cuddle,(except in the days when my mum bless her, was dying and then something changed). My dad was strict. I was frightened of him and always tried to seek his approval, although it never came. My mum was in awe of my dad. She worshipped him and no matter what, his decision was final.

I have gone against everything (and by god I mean everything) I was brought up with. I praise my children and grandchildren for every good thing they do. I tell them they are wonderful, beautiful and so very clever. My gorgeous grandchildren are oozing confidence and as far as I am concerned...... job done.

Listen, affirm, congratulate (when deserved) and support in every way you can

Love them unconditionally and show your love . Be consistent in your expectations but always give explanations. Have fun together and share experiences. Never underestimate their powers of observation, understanding and communication. Talk to them, explain things, ask them questions. Give them opportunities to take responsibility, to make decisions,to 'help' you, to do things together, to do things independently but with your support. Give them your time...read with them, play with them, explore places together, relax together. Small children are like sponges....the more they absorb, the more they understand about life and their place in the world, the more confident they become.

HEAR WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY LISTERN . DO LOTS THINGS TOGETHER ..HAVE LOTS FRIENDS ROUND.. ALWAYS MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL ..
JUST LET THEM EXPRESS THEMSELF FOR WHAT THEY ARE NOT WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO BE

Provide the security of a stable and loving home environment.

Ameliorate anxieties.

Encourage exploring.

Nurture any talent in a child, and encourage them by telling them how wonderful/good or whatever that talent is - whether academic, musical or just making people happy!

Give them space; give them the opportunity to make their own decisions - not like "What would you like for dinner" but "what shall we do today? GO for a walk or make mud pies?" also try to let them have some sort of money sense.

Take them for a walk and ask them if they feel it is safe to cross the road, and so on.

Let them try anything they want to do within reason and if they cannot manage they can be told it was good to try and maybe when they're a little older they can try again. Never compare them to siblings, each child is different.

I always stress to our eight DGC, that everyone is different in the world, have different talents and abilities, and that is a good thing.
And then find a talent to praise, no matter how small.

Listen to them more for a start.Take their worries seriously ( even if the worries are not serious).Encourage them to speak up for themselves.