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equ1ne Thu 09-Jun-16 13:36:22

Futher any interests or apptitudes a child shows;allow them to have the time to express themselvesProvide a nurturing expressive home life where a child is not afraid to try and maybe fail

password71 Thu 09-Jun-16 11:57:03

Praise them and listen to them. Tell them they can tell you anything and they can be anyone they want to be.

Let them make decisions: Don't ask your toddler what he wants for dinner, but offer cheesy pasta or chicken nuggets and chips. At the same time, let your child know certain choices are up to you.

Focus on the Glass Half Full: If your child is upset because they didn't the the lead in the school play, don't say, "Well, I think you're a star." Instead, say, "I can see how disappointed you are. Let's come up with a plan for how you can increase the chances of getting the part you want next time".

Nurture Special Interests: Try to expose your child to a wide variety of activities, and encourage them when they find something they really love. Kids who have a passion whether it's football or cooking, feel proud of their expertise and are more likely to be successful in other areas of their life.

Above all love them and tell them they are special to you and will always be there.

Alea Thu 09-Jun-16 10:55:54

Don't talk down to them but always listen and answer questions to the best of your ability, bearing in mind what that age can handle. Praise achievement and say how proud you are ,but don't ever laugh at them or "parade" them showing off what they can do. For many children this can be excruciatingly embarrassing and actually patronising.
Love them with all your heart.

KatGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 09-Jun-16 10:41:18

From the creator of the known and loved Bright Side lifestyle brand, Rachel Bright, and illustrator of Oi Frog!, Jim Field, comes a feel good rhyming story about one little mouse trying to make himself heard and discovering along the way that even the smallest of us can have the heart of a lion.

The Lion Inside is perfect for fans of Giraffes Can't Dance. This stylish book from two contemporary stars really is something to shout about - it will make you laugh, cry and want to read it every bedtime.

Share your tips for boosting confidence in small children on this thread below for a chance to win a £100 John Lewis voucher and a signed copy of The Lion Inside.

This competition ends midday on 8 July 2016.

The Lion Inside can be purchased online and from all good booksellers.