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Listen to them about their day, play with them even if your just wanting that cup of tea and a sit down. Have play dates with other children to help with socialising aspect. And most important show by example- don't burden them with naggings in front of them about your day etc, be confident and happy in your day to day life and they will follow suit.

Always encourage them without being pushy
Try to make things fun and praise them
Try and sit them down and explain things simply without overwhelming them
Be positive
Listen to them
And let them help resolve things this gives them confidence

If they show a liking or an aptitude for something encourage it to blossom.

Give them time and plenty of encouragement to try new things. They have to learn that no one is good at everything but if they do their best that's all anyone can ask of them.

my son was shy and we found the best thing is not to force situations but praise when he did something a bit brave.
talking to your children and explaining its natural to be nervous and even as adults we are but to do it anyway feels good after. and after he did something we talked about how good it felt. little bits of bravery lead to others.

Make sure they know how much you love them, no matter what. Praise them for anything they do and efforts they make.

Remember when you were a child? Hold on to that sense of curiosity and of wonder - listen attentively and respect their thoughts and fears and always answer their questions.
Oh and love them with all your heart.

Let them know how important they are . Listen very carefully to what they say and value it. Give them every opportunity to develop their personalities and skills.

Always being there to encourage/listen.

Take them seriously and encourage them when they have dreams and goals, no matter how small or silly they may sound. Reward them for effort rather than results so they know they are doing well for trying, whether or not they succeed.

Don't make them feel silly, if they're trying to tell you something listen. If they want to be with you engage with them they love it

If possible, get down to their level and look them in the eye when they're talking to you. Make sure you listen as well as you can and nod to encourage them.

Ask their opinion - that way they'll feel valued.

Lastly, lots of kisses and cuddles so they feel loved.

In this technological age always let them know they are more important and interesting than anything on your smartphone!

Children often don't see what they are truly capable of. Believe in them and they will believe in themselves!

Always listen to them and any concerns they have. Try to explain in terms they can understand and praise them for all their efforts, good behaviour and manners. Encourage them to have friends and share their toys or goodies. Love and trust one another and be happy.have fun!

Praise them and listen to them. is good advice i think xx

Don't belittle their concerns. If, for example, a child is anxious about doing something, talk about what is scaring them and help them to understand how to manage the experience.

Get them into sport

be prepared to listen patiently, watch what you say, they are very good at repeating, try teaching them to say please and thank you, try to explain in language they understand what these words mean, most importantly try teaching them right from wrong.

There is nothing more precious than spending time with your children (or grandchikdren) encouraging conversation to build their vocabulary to be able to voice their thoughts, fears and opinions more confidently, and listening to what they have to say, to build their self esteem.

Let them know that you are always there in the background supporting them - whether they succeed or not, and tell them it best to have a go at new things as that is the only way to learn and grow

Listen, encourage and love

Praise children but make sure your praise is specific and sincere.

Short stories for short attention span - exciting range of voices to help them emotionally connect with the story helps.

I praise my children whenever they achieve something no matter how little. I encourage them whenever I can and listen as much as possible.