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KatGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 09-Jun-16 10:41:18

From the creator of the known and loved Bright Side lifestyle brand, Rachel Bright, and illustrator of Oi Frog!, Jim Field, comes a feel good rhyming story about one little mouse trying to make himself heard and discovering along the way that even the smallest of us can have the heart of a lion.

The Lion Inside is perfect for fans of Giraffes Can't Dance. This stylish book from two contemporary stars really is something to shout about - it will make you laugh, cry and want to read it every bedtime.

Share your tips for boosting confidence in small children on this thread below for a chance to win a £100 John Lewis voucher and a signed copy of The Lion Inside.

This competition ends midday on 8 July 2016.

The Lion Inside can be purchased online and from all good booksellers.

PaulinaW Fri 24-Jun-16 23:49:25

Listen to them and praise them whenever possible but more importantly be consistent in whatever you do so they know what to expect. Spend your time with them.

embo32 Sat 25-Jun-16 09:32:07

Praise, encouragement, value their individuality, listen to them, love them unconditionally and never embarass them.

hutchy73 Sat 25-Jun-16 22:39:24

Always listen - spend lots of time with them - never let them put themselves down

eddie494 Sun 26-Jun-16 11:22:33

Praise, encourage and support!

Maclairey Sun 26-Jun-16 20:45:05

I praise my children whenever they achieve something no matter how little. I encourage them whenever I can and listen as much as possible.

ravina Mon 27-Jun-16 18:33:09

Short stories for short attention span - exciting range of voices to help them emotionally connect with the story helps.

Heather264 Tue 28-Jun-16 04:04:37

Praise children but make sure your praise is specific and sincere.

bigd1919 Wed 29-Jun-16 09:33:33

Listen, encourage and love

karenweedon Thu 30-Jun-16 15:19:42

Let them know that you are always there in the background supporting them - whether they succeed or not, and tell them it best to have a go at new things as that is the only way to learn and grow

pegros Thu 30-Jun-16 19:27:45

There is nothing more precious than spending time with your children (or grandchikdren) encouraging conversation to build their vocabulary to be able to voice their thoughts, fears and opinions more confidently, and listening to what they have to say, to build their self esteem.

newfield Fri 01-Jul-16 11:24:31

be prepared to listen patiently, watch what you say, they are very good at repeating, try teaching them to say please and thank you, try to explain in language they understand what these words mean, most importantly try teaching them right from wrong.

sharkgirl Fri 01-Jul-16 22:27:05

Get them into sport

jevive73 Fri 01-Jul-16 23:02:52

Don't belittle their concerns. If, for example, a child is anxious about doing something, talk about what is scaring them and help them to understand how to manage the experience.

greig23 Sun 03-Jul-16 08:12:03

Praise them and listen to them. is good advice i think xx

Mitzie Sun 03-Jul-16 11:28:21

Always listen to them and any concerns they have. Try to explain in terms they can understand and praise them for all their efforts, good behaviour and manners. Encourage them to have friends and share their toys or goodies. Love and trust one another and be happy.have fun!

KBywaters Sun 03-Jul-16 12:49:57

Children often don't see what they are truly capable of. Believe in them and they will believe in themselves!

Noony84 Sun 03-Jul-16 15:11:17

In this technological age always let them know they are more important and interesting than anything on your smartphone!

marymod Sun 03-Jul-16 18:18:20

If possible, get down to their level and look them in the eye when they're talking to you. Make sure you listen as well as you can and nod to encourage them.

Ask their opinion - that way they'll feel valued.

Lastly, lots of kisses and cuddles so they feel loved.

kathcake Sun 03-Jul-16 20:27:48

Don't make them feel silly, if they're trying to tell you something listen. If they want to be with you engage with them they love it

emily13 Mon 04-Jul-16 15:17:12

Take them seriously and encourage them when they have dreams and goals, no matter how small or silly they may sound. Reward them for effort rather than results so they know they are doing well for trying, whether or not they succeed.

cloudzulu Mon 04-Jul-16 16:40:32

Always being there to encourage/listen.

sloan Mon 04-Jul-16 18:08:15

Let them know how important they are . Listen very carefully to what they say and value it. Give them every opportunity to develop their personalities and skills.

DaphneBroon Mon 04-Jul-16 18:19:56

Remember when you were a child? Hold on to that sense of curiosity and of wonder - listen attentively and respect their thoughts and fears and always answer their questions.
Oh and love them with all your heart.

sylwright Mon 04-Jul-16 22:12:14

Make sure they know how much you love them, no matter what. Praise them for anything they do and efforts they make.

theresacoo Tue 05-Jul-16 10:45:46

my son was shy and we found the best thing is not to force situations but praise when he did something a bit brave.
talking to your children and explaining its natural to be nervous and even as adults we are but to do it anyway feels good after. and after he did something we talked about how good it felt. little bits of bravery lead to others.