In 1965 ten years before we joined the EU my Mum Dad and my now husband of 47 years Tony were touring Europe. We met a German couple in an hotel in Sportorno Italy that was full of Italian families other than us and the Germans. A very tenuous friendship was struck up with the German couple bearing in mind the era. This developed to a real friendship. We visited San Remo together and on to Monaco where my Dad a soldier in WWll had a wobble and wanted to push Ado yes Ado who was a bomber pilot over the cliff at the church where Prince Rainier and Grace Kelly were married. We toured the South of France and Southern Italy together and the unlikely friendship developed. On a beautiful day at the beach Ado who was quite large got into breathing difficulties swimming out to the sun bathing raft. Dad sat and watched from the beach. We all looked at him. All the horrors of the past were swept aside and Dad dived into the water swam to Ado and dragged the much heavier man onto the raft. They stayed there for a long while talking. A very long friendship was forged to their deaths. After the episode on the beach we visited many more places together during the three week holiday. On the return from one visit to Nice all of us in Ado s Opal car we were flagged down on our return by the Italian motorbike police. He had crossed a white line on a hill on the coastal road. We were all arrested and escorted to the nearest town. We were taken to a dingy police station Dad and Ado were placed in a cell. We Ado s wife Helen Mum Jean me and Tony sat outside the cell. Ado must pay 5000 lira He said No. We were there for five hours and Ado would not move. Dad had a tattoo on his left arm a cross with Mam written across it. The Italian chief of police was very taken with it and the fact we were travelling with a German couple confused him. He didn't t understand it wasn't a tattoo from a WWll camp. Ado and Dad played on this. He, Ado promised to pay the fine when leaving Italy. Pre Common Market. They let us go with hand shakes and back slapping and a promise that Ado would pay on the way home to Germany. We left the Police Station and travelled back along the Mediterranean road to Sportorno and carried on with our road trip of Europe with the unlikely alliance of a British Tommy and a German Bomber pilot. We had many many European Road trips before and since then but the Road Trip of 1965 was one of the funniest happiest and eventful Road Trips and Ado never did pay the 5000 lira at the border.
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?



He then informed us how to escape via the industrial estate, but warned that we wouldn't get very far if driving in France. So, quick consultation of the map and off we set..into Belgium, through Germany and on into Switzerland....eventually creeping back into France, where we made our way via some very minor roads, some barely more than farm tracks..arriving eventually at our destination, which was eerily quiet. The next morning we headed down to the boulangerie for our breakfast croissants and were greeted with looks of amazement from Monsieur and Madame, who demanded to know how we had got there. After listening to our account, punctuated by many "Ooh la las" from Madame, Monsieur exclaimed, "Un veritable autour de France!" ...and presented us with our croissants on the house 
