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I don't mind when my partner gets involved as it shows he is interested in the same stuff as me!

My partner never gets involved in what I consider to be "mine" unless of course you include telling me how I should have cooked something, even though he never cooks!

I would be pleased! (I think)

I'm fast out of the blocks, able to think outside of the box, but not a planner or finisher so will mostly welcome a partners input to bring matters to a conclusion.
I will often load the gun and let him fire the bullet in contentious matters.

he enjoys joining in

He would be more then welcome, but I know he would give up after a few minutes!

Inevitably whats mine becomes hers and vice versa!

That would be difficult- he is no more! And he always had his own interests.

He does but nothing serious, he eats my chocolate, looks at what is on my screen and often tells me a better way of doing the thing I have just finished! Heyho, I probably do annoying things too. Anything important he is happy to leave to me and I leave him to know all about football.

It doesn't ever happen, he's far too busy working. He's a farmer. And that's the way I like it!

I don’t have a partner but would love both the book and the Fitbit ?

We both have our own interests, with me its the usual, knitting, reading, crochet, gardening, he will cut the grass, but thats it for the garden on his side, he likes to make things from wood, so spends time in his workshop. I go in with a cuppa, and leave But we have some interests together, so we have time together doing what we like. it works for us.

We've shared so much over the last 50 years that not sharing would be odd...!

Usually he knows what his strengths are and I know what mine are, so this isn’t a problem often, though he does interfere when I cook

We dont have specific his and her activities, if one of us is trying something new and the other one is interested they will probably have a go too. If not they will carry on with their own specific interest.

When i did have a husband(i hate the term partner if your actually married to them,its sounds like a business deal)! If he took over what was mine,id do a swap..

Id keep the book,and pass the fitbit to my lovely son.(one of 2 who lives at home) they both often want whats mine...sigh....

I don't mind at all, it's nice that he is interested in what I do

I don’t mind sharing! We make a great team!

I don't mind it makes a change from her watching only fools and horses all day.

I prefer to share

Two minds are better than one - so usually it works out better !

My husband never becomes involved in my jobs/projects without being asked and then he will help.He is too busy with his own DIY but will leave this if needed.

i object emails are private and i hate him looking over my shoulder no respect

Sometimes its nice to get a different perspective but we each have our own interests which provides some independance and wider social circles