Any choice is unlikely to be between elderly person and young mother. It will be between elderly person with heart problems and diabetes and younger person also with disabilities.
All I want is to be spoken to as an adult and not patronised and my children told to keep an eye on us and check we are alright. Of course anyone frail and disabled, especially with poor mental powers, needs to be checked on, but that applies regardless of age.
Many older people, even in their 80s and 90s are more than capable of coping with this crisis, modern life etc etc. Of course families will be in touch, in the day to day, week on week basis that they always are. But I am in command of every aspect of my life and do not intened to be talked down to, or even worse, talked over.
Good Morning Sunday 17th May 2026


