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Is it naive to think people will do the right thing?

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Aepgirl Mon 23-Mar-20 10:57:13

Do we all value our lives, and those of our loved ones, so little that we think we don’t have to follow advice? Wake up everybody - this won’t go away on its own, and neither will fresh air blow it away.

Mollygo Mon 23-Mar-20 10:54:11

Like M0nica I think things will settle down, but some folk just need to have things enforced. It’s not the first time self control has been required and ignored.
Samuel Pepys (the dude who kept a diary during the Black Death and the Great Fire of London) had something to say about them about 350 years ago......

"The taverns are fair full of gadabouts making merry this eve. And though I may press my face against the window like an urchin at a confectioner’s, I am tempted not by the sweetmeats within. A dram in exchange for the pox is an ill bargain indeed."

Samuel Pepys, MP and Diarist
1633-1703

polnan Mon 23-Mar-20 10:52:49

I think is is unrealistic and yes, could say naive of us.. the public to expect the Government to do all of this for us..

we all know there are those who will do "the right thing" and those that won`t..

M0nica Mon 23-Mar-20 10:52:02

I think things will improve this week. Last week was so febrile. New restrictions announced almost every day, schools closing, pubs and clubs, I think a lot of us were running round trying to make sure we were set up for further restrictions.

This was followed by the first warm spring weekend after a wretched winter and with the possibility of further restrictions I can understand why people wanted to rush out and get one brief taste of spring before everything closed down.

As I said, I think things will calm down this week.

Tooting29 Mon 23-Mar-20 10:45:41

No I don't think it is naive of the Government. It is not unreasonable for adults to take personal responsibility and follow Government advice which has been clear. It's easy to blame the Government,and everyone wants more of everything, more information, more money, more food more lock down., more Gov foing stuff. What is it about stay at home, 2m social distancing no unnecessary travelling, do not visit elderly relatives, shop responsibly do reasonably intelligent people not understand.

Oopsadaisy3 Mon 23-Mar-20 09:56:31

I’ve been feeling guilty, I have an elderly neighbour who has a chronic illness and has started to show signs of dementia, but he has carers going in, an other elderly neighbour has leukaemia , I have spoken to both of them from across the road, asking if they needed me to let me know, both I and my DH have chronic problems but are not yet 70 ( well we will be in May) . But I have been feeling that I could be doing more to help as they are alone most of the day.

However, yesterday both of them had masses of visitors, of all ages, ACs grandchildren and great Grandchildren including toddlers, they had half a dozen cars parked in the road, I couldn’t believe it!

I’m afraid if they ask for help I’m going to have to tell them to contact their relatives as I can’t risk catching something from them now. I’m using gloves when I drag their dustbins out for them , but it’s made me very cross.

Itsnotme Mon 23-Mar-20 09:54:39

I’m a great believer of staying at home but..

The government is urging everyone to stay at home. I think the government needs to explain clearly why people need to stay at home. If you feel ill, then it’s obvious to stay at home. But why should the well people stay at home ?
I’m guessing it’s because when you are out about you could pick up germs from Ill people who are also out and about. For example sitting on a park bench after an Ill person has sat down. And then you pass it on to other people.

Perhaps someone here can clarify it better. Why do well people have to stay at home ?

Hetty58 Mon 23-Mar-20 09:49:03

Spot on Bluebelle! I resent the blame being put on the public, however ignorant and irresponsible they are.

We have a government for a reason - to ensure public safety.

They are failing to act proportionately, failing to act quickly enough and gambling with our lives!

Teetime Mon 23-Mar-20 09:40:11

Kalu I see the CEO of Sainsbury changed this last night.

Kalu Mon 23-Mar-20 09:38:19

Very naive of us to trust those in command who now have made the decision that the supermarket time slot for over 70s will now be shared with health workers. How anyone thought this was a sensible idea beggars belief! ?

Happygirl79 Mon 23-Mar-20 09:36:34

Most will do the right thing but those that just carry on as they wish regardless put everyone's health in danger, prolong the whole scenario and put the NHS and economy in danger too.
These same people will blame the government when taxes go up later on to pay for it while the sensible people will understand
Lock down now

BlueBelle Mon 23-Mar-20 09:35:46

Very naive and not going to happen
There needs to be complete lockdown if we want to get this done anytime soon or else we will be dithering around for blooming years the troops unfortunately need to be on the streets obviously the average Brit has no strength or willingness to conform even when its for their own good

Hetty58 Mon 23-Mar-20 09:22:59

Is it naive to think people will do the right thing? - well yes, apparently.

I am being over-cautious and doing more than required.

My whole extended family are in isolation. Sadly, we are in the minority, though.

MawB Mon 23-Mar-20 09:22:15

Sadly the evidence of our own eyes must be “Yes it is naive”. While millions of people are “doing the right thing” and from reading here, it sounds like most of GN, there are nevertheless many others who are endangering us all by their selfish behaviour. sad sad and angry

eazybee Mon 23-Mar-20 09:21:58

The majority of people will; but too many who won't will endanger their efforts. Articles in the paper from clever people who have moved to their second home in the Cotswolds, stockpiled so that they won't have to go out for a month, (really?), and booked several delivery slots from different supermarkets. People with a healthy sense of self-preservation always plan ahead, for their own benefit, rarely for others.

Hetty58 Mon 23-Mar-20 09:17:45

The overall message on today's news is that the public aren't social distancing.

That is very true - but 'blames' the public.

Very convenient. The government needs to act and implement lockdown asap, like NZ, for public protection!

Mapleleaf Mon 23-Mar-20 09:16:22

You are right, Greta. There is certainly plenty of "it doesn't apply to me" attitude about. Things have to change.

Daddima Mon 23-Mar-20 09:15:38

And yet we still have to read and hear that the British spirit and consideration for others means we will all pull together and beat this virus! Sadly, not from where I’m standing.

Greta Mon 23-Mar-20 09:12:12

I believe it is and I think we have now all seen that. A little while ago we were told ”there is plenty of food for everybody, no need to stockpile”. My immediate reaction was that that was the wrong thing to say because stockpiling was exactly what people were going to do.

Now we are witnessing the same behaviour in parks and beaches, i.e ignore advice and do what you want.

The government need to change tack; asking people to comply with requests just won't do.