I’ve been feeling guilty, I have an elderly neighbour who has a chronic illness and has started to show signs of dementia, but he has carers going in, an other elderly neighbour has leukaemia , I have spoken to both of them from across the road, asking if they needed me to let me know, both I and my DH have chronic problems but are not yet 70 ( well we will be in May) . But I have been feeling that I could be doing more to help as they are alone most of the day.
However, yesterday both of them had masses of visitors, of all ages, ACs grandchildren and great Grandchildren including toddlers, they had half a dozen cars parked in the road, I couldn’t believe it!
I’m afraid if they ask for help I’m going to have to tell them to contact their relatives as I can’t risk catching something from them now. I’m using gloves when I drag their dustbins out for them , but it’s made me very cross.