polnan Wed 22-Apr-20 10:21:46
I don`t understand why you question if volunteering is selfish.
if you want to volunteer , as requested, sounds a bit like the old army joke,, I want volunteers, you , you and you!
you want to volunteer as requested?? not selfish, bit unrealistic,,
I am finding, well I found out a long time ago, where my responsibitilies (sp?) should be..
I can understand if you feel that you would like to do more in this surreal life we are now flung
but we have to do what we have to do, and sometimes that means we can`t do everything we would like to do
if you get my drift