I think I would seriously consider moving in with your daughter if she has the room for you. This is going to create an awful atmosphere for you at home but you need to keep yourself, daughter and GKs safe. My partner said he was going out to test his bike with a group of friends. I told him that when he comes back he will be sleeping in his camper for 14 days and not coming into the house. He is not going.
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