I seem to be an infrequent poster. I open the posts and read through them every day, but the days seem to be drifting by and not much is happening.
Mamissimo, your most recent post made me feel better about my lack of direction at the moment.
My DH bounces awake (and I mean bounces!) every morning with a list of all the jobs he plans to do for the day. When he goes quiet, I know he is wondering what he will eat. DH sometimes gets his head snapped off by me because knowing he will have a full tummy during the day seems to be central to his well being. I’m just sick of planning meals all the time but if I ask DH what he fancies, it usually a) requires ingredients we don’t have, b) requires hours of work for something he eats in minutes, c) is often something I have difficulty eating. Some will ask, why doesn’t he cook the meals? Well, he will but a), b) and c) still apply and there is the added disadvantage that he really isn’t very good at it and, while I would always give him full marks for effort (and clearing up after himself), despite years of practice on his part and coaching from me, he seems to have a short-term memory and his time management skills desert him. One job to be completed at a time. DH is so good about everything else though, I have no right to complain.
However, first thing in the morning, I hear DH’s list and think what food I will prepare. Then I what am I going to do? The housework is always there (oh for a cleaner, I think I may have mentioned that I loathe all housework before). So what else… read through GN (I can’t stand the news anymore), perhaps I should look at my next online food shop and plan that? I will use my exercise bike (currently watching ‘In the Line of Duty’) and carry out my various medical routines. I may make a cake if we have run out…
Yesterday, DH and I had our eyes tested - that seemed a pretty bizarre experience. The opticians’ shop was quiet and only one other customer came in while we were there. I really don’t know how they can survive. Our prescriptions didn’t need changing so we just paid for a big box of lens cleaners. The town was busy with tourists and I was glad to get away.
Panache, I keep thinking of you and your DH. I don’t understand your circumstances but could you contact Age UK and ask them for advice? I worked for Environmental Health 30 years ago and used to inspect food premises. I’m truly out of touch now but I would guess that your care provider should have inspections if they are providing food. Perhaps you could find a way of bringing this about anonymously. You have been so strong in the past, don’t let the b******s bring you down!
BradfordLass, I don’t have many memories of school days but one of the few that has stayed with me was in my infant school when we had an exchange teacher from New Zealand for a year. Among other things, he taught us a Maori song and we did a sort of stick dance (short sticks, tapping out rhythms against one another - could have been a bit dodgy, I don’t think Health and Safety would allow it these days). I can still remember the sounds of the words and the rhythms.
Grammaretto, I've lost weight because of my teeth. Not a good way of doing it. I'm looking forward to eating peanuts again!
Cherry, well Conan Doyle wrote "The Sign of Four", he just didn't count far enough!
The evening meal calls - chicken fajitas I think. (We had supermarket delivery yesterday too - such fun!) At least that is fast to cook and I managed to get some decent avocados to make guacamole. I’m so pleased that I found out that you can just put whole chillies in the freezer and use them as needed, still frozen.
DH’s stomach calls….
Thank you all for being here - even if you would much rather be elsewhere.
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). I do hope you and MrP feel better soon.
