Most posts mention Christmas Day, but there are twelve days to Christmas as far as I’m concerned. I’m pretty laid back about it since my husband died and if my dc are here, fab, if not it might be the first Xmas I get to see It’s a Wonderful Life, if it’s on?. I’ve moved from a big tree (unless my daughter is here and she does it, very professionally) to a small fake tree on a table, that’s ok too. I know it means a lot to my children, they still love the traditional Xmas day we have had over the years, but as a previous poster mentioned, the energy required for the full works takes some doing. It’s a magical time whatever happens.