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Elbow bumping - good or bad?

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MamaCaz Tue 09-Nov-21 11:33:42

Am I alone in thinking that elbow bumping is not good, because it brings the heads of the two people doing it far closer together than i would have thought was wise.

Wouldn't fist-bumping make more sense, that's if people really feel that they need to touch at all, which is debatable ... ?

grumppa Tue 09-Nov-21 19:38:08

Elbow bumping is absurd. Mind you, if ever I were introduced to Boris, I’d be more inclined to head butt him.

Alegrias1 Tue 09-Nov-21 20:06:47

I wouldn't condone violence grumppa but that did make me laugh grin. Maybe if he comes up to Scotland for the end of COP we can introduce him to the Glesga kiss. wink

LtEve Tue 09-Nov-21 21:22:04

I hug, obviously only with prior agreement.

FarNorth Wed 10-Nov-21 05:06:40

Thank you for giving that a trial run & reporting back to us Chewbacca. grin

Nanny27 Wed 10-Nov-21 11:48:55

MissAdventure

I just raise my eyebrows to people I know.
Sometimes mumble "alright"?

Love it! ???

Nanny27 Wed 10-Nov-21 11:51:12

MayBeMaw

^I know Frankie Boyle isn't to everyone's taste, but he welcomes the guests on his show with a little incline of the head an a hand on his heart, or a namaste^

I saw that the other night and rather liked it too.

Prince Charles always does this too. I think it's rather nice.

Joesoap Wed 10-Nov-21 11:55:19

Elbow bumping is ridiculous I think and as for. Prime Minister doing this looks so unsuitable it looks as though he is trying to be friends with everyone. I just say hello I don’t shake hands anymore you don’t know where they have been!

Calistemon Wed 10-Nov-21 12:00:44

grumppa

Elbow bumping is absurd. Mind you, if ever I were introduced to Boris, I’d be more inclined to head butt him.

I wouldn't, grumppa, too close a contact and he is an anti-masker

Growing0ldDisgracefully Wed 10-Nov-21 12:06:40

Tizliz and Misadventure - that has put some pictures on my head I can't get rid of! ??

Kryptonite Wed 10-Nov-21 12:09:56

Bad and pointless. Just say "Hello". No wholesale hugging either.

grumppa Wed 10-Nov-21 12:38:49

Calistemon, sometimes there is a greater good…

grumppa Wed 10-Nov-21 12:39:50

… Including the benefit to my mental health!!

Theoddbird Wed 10-Nov-21 12:47:23

Bowing and curtsying....love the idea.
When I worked and I opened a door for someone I always curtsied as they went through. It amused people and I loved doing it. Elbow bumping...NO, NO, NO!

Guntew183 Wed 10-Nov-21 12:50:54

And he wasn’t wearing a mask, in a hospital?

HannahLoisLuke Wed 10-Nov-21 12:52:50

I think it looks silly. Can’t stand high fives either.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 10-Nov-21 12:55:19

Fortunately, elbow-bumping didn't catch on here in Denmark.

To my mind, people are far too close to each other if they can bump elbows.

Even worse, if you bump too hard and touch the point of the elbow it can hurt badly and continue to do so for a longish time.

I vote for bowing and curtseying too, or a polite inclination of the head.

maddyone Wed 10-Nov-21 12:56:57

It doesn’t really matter to me what other people do, especially politicians/celebrities. I kiss my family on the cheek, usually a little hug to a close friend, although I’ve hardly seen much of my close friends in the last two years. I’m going out with a friend for coffee this afternoon, I’ll report back later.

Theoddbird Wed 10-Nov-21 13:00:15

I love the idea of Namaste...hands together with a slight bow of head smile

Lincslass Wed 10-Nov-21 13:31:54

MamaCaz

Am I alone in thinking that elbow bumping is not good, because it brings the heads of the two people doing it far closer together than i would have thought was wise.

Wouldn't fist-bumping make more sense, that's if people really feel that they need to touch at all, which is debatable ... ?

Perhaps we should just say Hello.

MamaCaz Wed 10-Nov-21 13:37:12

Lincslass

MamaCaz

Am I alone in thinking that elbow bumping is not good, because it brings the heads of the two people doing it far closer together than i would have thought was wise.

Wouldn't fist-bumping make more sense, that's if people really feel that they need to touch at all, which is debatable ... ?

Perhaps we should just say Hello.

I'm all for that.

dragonfly46 Wed 10-Nov-21 13:39:35

Pointless - just saying Hello is sufficient.
I love the fact that I no longer have to hug people I don't know or dislike.

nipsmum Wed 10-Nov-21 13:49:39

I don't fist or elbow bump. If I want to, I hug someone if it's okay with them.

Amalegra Wed 10-Nov-21 13:50:14

Elbow bumping: looks silly, awkward and self conscious! If anyone tried it with me I would refuse. Nod. Wave. Make silly faces! Anything but that! Almost as bad as the equally embarrassing ‘namaste’! Why not just say hello and smile!

Alegrias1 Wed 10-Nov-21 13:55:12

Namaste, sometimes spoken as namaskar and namaskaram, is a Hindu customary, non-contact form of respectfully greeting and honoring the opposite person or group, used at any time of day.

Yes, how embarrassing... hmm

polnan Wed 10-Nov-21 13:56:46

I like the namaste also... much more to my taste, but I think
we westerners or whatever you want to call us, have difficulty with that.