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Doodle Tue 29-Aug-23 22:06:42

Thanks Kaimoana for the title.
Can’t believe we’re on another thread.
All are welcome to join us for a chat.

ixion Sun 05-Nov-23 18:42:49

Good luck for the 👁️ tomorrow, Grammaretto. You'll be staggered at the difference.
Your story was beautifully crafted, Kaimona, soothing and a joy to read, thank you.

Doodle, there will be ups and downs along your difficult journey, know that we with are with you all the way🌼
I hope you get some rest tonight- (you do have a chauffeuring system in place, I hope?.)

CherryCezzy Sun 05-Nov-23 18:07:52

Sorry to hear that your DH is in a lot of pain today Doodle. The NHS is brilliant, except on the weekend 😕 It's not right and they really should be managing his pain. I've no doubt you're exhausted, I'd be surprised if you weren't. I must say I'm really concerned about you, you ought to be recuperating and need some rest to do that. Please, please look after yourself. I'm praying and I'm not even religious that you sleep better tonight. Sending you my warmest, gentlest cwtches xx

Doodle Sun 05-Nov-23 17:15:27

Grammaretto all the best with your op. Hope it goes well.
Not a good day today. DH in lots of pain and I am exhausted.
Ward with shouting patients and no doctor support as it’s weekend. I’ve been here all day today and didn’t sleep much last night. I keep falling asleep and waking up with a jerk.
Hope you’re all ok. xx
(Kaimoana, I know how your mind works……DH is not the jerk 🤣)

CherryCezzy Sun 05-Nov-23 12:02:56

Your cataract operation is tomorrow isn't it Grammaretto. I hope it goes well for you 💐

Grammaretto Sun 05-Nov-23 08:43:50

Hello Lobstars
I open tentatively these days but am very relieved to read that the Dude is in recovery. Phew!
No relapses allowed
I hope Doodle is getting plenty of rest.

Thanks for your reminiscences Kaimoana.

I have a horribly busy day ahead so mustn't linger but I will tell you how my cataract op went and my exhibition opening after they happen

Kaimoana Sun 05-Nov-23 05:28:29

More great news, slow and steady does it tortoise grin

CherryCezzy Sat 04-Nov-23 22:56:49

Thank you for the update Doodle. From what you've said of the last couple of days it sounds like it's slow but hopefully it's also steady progress for your DH. I'm not surprised you're tired, I hope you manage to get some good sleep tonight x

A lovely reminiscence too Kaimoana, thank you for sharing it with us 💐. I hope your home care is back on track now and you are getting your provisions in.

I hope all the rest of the lobStars are okay

ixion Sat 04-Nov-23 22:47:44

Such positive news, Doodle. Hope this helps you sleep a little easier.
Sending love🦋

Mamissimo Sat 04-Nov-23 22:37:34

Sleep tight Doodle. What strength you both have!

we are just home from supper with DD2 and DS and their partners. It was simply family fun. the best.

Doodle Sat 04-Nov-23 22:25:54

Hi all. DH slightly better today but still got a way to go.
I’ve just got home so been a long day.
Hope all the gang are ok and sorry I can’t write more but I’m quite tired now.
Lots of love ❤️

Kaimoana2 Sat 04-Nov-23 21:17:21

Sheesh, Hypothermia ! grin

Kaimoana2 Sat 04-Nov-23 21:09:29

A little gentle reminiscence.
Every Whitsuntide, from 1958, my parents took us to Borrans Court, in Waterhead at the northern tip of Lake Windermere.
Borrans was on a rise overlooking the lake and the extensive garden between house and road was planted with a mass of azalea and miniature rhododendron.
At that time of year the whole hillside was in bloom and the scent, incredible.

My family were all ‘owls’ but I was a lark so just after dawn each day I’d pull on my swimming costume, run down the narrow rustic steps through the garden and dash across the field to the lake.

Yellow Flag was in bloom beside sturdy Reedmace aka Bullrush but I pushed my way through (gently) and into the water. Bliss.

I'd learned to swim in the icy rivers of the Yorkshire Dales, so cold water was no problem, a trait my little grand-daughter has inherited it seems smile

No one was about. Tourists would come later in the season but not in droves. Serious walkers following Wainwrights early walks and a few climbers but the fells were quiet, waiting.

Ambleside was still a small town where the shops catered for the locals rather than “the tourist trade”. It was a peaceful place.

I would swim hard for half an hour, activity necessary to stave off hyperthermia but allow myself a few luxurious minutes to float in the silence and look up at the endless sky.

Then reluctantly I’d walk slowly home, past a heap of mossy, neglected stones in the field between house and lake.
These stones fascinated me as a small, square shape could be made out. Could they be Roman? Did some rich senator once have a home on the lakeside? Surely they would have been better cared for if they really were so ancient?

Now, Galava as it is tentatively called, is thought to have been a Roman fort guarding the route to Ravensglass but it was to be many years before anyone but me cared about this.

Occasionally, even here in New Zealand, I will throw back the big, glass doors in the very early morning and catch a similar aroma of awakening foliage, mown grass and blossoms and I’ll speed back to those wonderful, solitary swims amongst the bullrushes and tall, golden Iris.

ixion Fri 03-Nov-23 22:31:06

Night night Doodle, hoping it's a peaceful one and that you get some much needed rest. 🌼

Grammaretto Fri 03-Nov-23 21:33:28

We surely are with you Doodle all the time
Hoping you can sleep some and that the worst is over.
Love to you both.

Mamissimo Fri 03-Nov-23 21:13:49

....and breathe....and that defo goes for you too Doodle. Hope you can get some sleep while the clever people support The Dude tonight. From my experience when you've got Sepsis the fight is internalised and consuming. Mr M tells me it's worse for the partners because they feel the fear. We're holding you close.

CherryCezzy Fri 03-Nov-23 20:19:26

It's really good to hear that MrD is making an improvement Doodle. Thank you for posting and letting us all know. Mind you look after yourself too 🌻🌻🌻

Kaimoana2 Fri 03-Nov-23 20:14:33

Hope this progress continues. All love to you both

Doodle Fri 03-Nov-23 20:08:10

Hello all. So sorry it’s short and sweet.
Brief update, DH very poorly yesterday and not in a good state at all
Seemed to turn a corner late last night and has been much better today. Still a way to go but uplifting none the less.
Thank you all for your caring and support it means a lot.
Love to all 💕💕

Kaimoana2 Fri 03-Nov-23 19:21:20

You live up to your name Sweetpea, such a nice message.
I hope you drop in more often.

It is indeed a deeply troubling time. We can only watch, worry and wait - sending as much love and strength as we can to our dear Mr & Mrs Doodle.
flowers

Sweetpeasue Fri 03-Nov-23 18:51:13

Such a lovely thread. Not meaning to intrude.
Just wanted to seize another chance to tell Doodle and Mr Doodle that I'm thinking of them and sending a big hug.x
Thanks all.

Mamissimo Fri 03-Nov-23 17:45:57

.......and from us too

CherryCezzy Fri 03-Nov-23 17:06:32

Cwtches from me Doodle, my thoughts are with you both xx

ixion Fri 03-Nov-23 16:21:56

Waves and hugs from me. Thinking of you all🌻

Grammaretto Fri 03-Nov-23 16:16:59

Thinking of the Doodles.
💜💙🩵💚💛🧡❤️🩷🤎🖤🩶

Kaimoana2 Fri 03-Nov-23 03:01:08

I had lots to tell, good, weird and funny but I just can't bear to be trivial when MrD is in hospital and our darling Doodle so worried.

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