Oh dear, from your reports it really does sounds as if you are going to get a similar Dangerous Deluge for winter.
Spud is now a Baby Bird, mouth open, tongue out ā food! 
The weekend cottage was very picturesque. I think the owner had consulted Homes & Gardens.
all very designerish and co-ordinated.
Extensive gardens with lots of flowers everywhere, nooks, crannies, arches, trellises and even a dovecot.
Gubbins loved the baby chickens and ducklings (all kept separate from guest accommodation) and there was a glorious view west to the Kaipara.
A rainy weekend had been forecast but other than a few short drizzles on Sunday it was dry. Cloudy though, so the famous sunsets did not grace our evenings.
I wanted to begin this story with good bits so you didn't think I was a moaning, negative old bat.
Now, the rest of the Curateās Egg.
There was no parking near the cottage so DS had to carry everything down a long, steep and very dangerous path. There was a handrail but with 2 metre gaps which made it dicey going from one to the other.
The circular and butterfly mosaics set into the path were proud of the surface which had cracked so flower seeds had been left to grow in the fissures. This was the first 'tripping hazard' well known to the elderly 
The steps up to the cottage were not too bad and although the polished floors within looked lovely, I nearly went bonce over bumty on the rug which slipped as I put first foot on it. We rolled this and other rugs up.
The old-style metal bedstead was high and with a modern, deep (and comfy) mattress, it was very high indeed. DS bed was lower but they had put Gubbins beside it so we couldnāt swap.
Nothing in the cottage was geared to older or less able people. No non-slip mat in the shower for instance nor mention of the need to bring Sherpa bearers to carry from the road (where we had to leave the car) to the property way below.
When DS took Gubbins to the local playground the next day and later to do some posh-food shopping, I stayed behind, unable to face that path and climb.
Gubbins loved the cold outdoor pool and I longer for a spa but DS pointed out that the wee step up to it, still meant a heck of a stretch to get in - and out. No hand rail here either. I didnāt dare.
The owners were really kind and when we were leaving, allowed us to go through their garden so DS could bring the car nearer for loading.
I feel mean mentioni g these hassles but if you offer accommodation, shouldn't you try just a little harder at safety for all?
No table & chairs, but high bar stools to the workbench which didnāt have enough lip even for Gubbinsā knees to fit beneath.
Iām glad we were there only for the weekend because although it looked absolutely wonderful, no thought had gone into anything but appearance.
No freezer space in the fridge and the galley kitchen was so small if you wanted to use the toaster, you moved the kettle. A tiny induction hob displaced both when DS made scrambled fresh eggs for breakfast.
It wasnāt as disappointing as this story seems to imply: DS and I had time to talk and he was generous enough to say it was valuable for the obvious bonding Gubbins and I achieved.
Because it looked so nice initially, I had dreamed I could go back alone once I saved up for another weekend ā now I know that just wouldnāt work.
All valuable knowledge.
And then, in gathering up Gubbins' books, I inadvertently walked off with their Information Book for guests about the local sights, menus and other guff.
I took a pair of slippers for the sweet lady owner and she was delighted - and gracious as it turns out she's an expert at the craft 