NotS I read through your whole post, not something I am able to do much these days, and found it very moving and interesting.
I'll be thinking of you. 
Yet another hospital appt in the offing, endocrinology this time for bone desnsity. Yet again at the far-distant hospital which is such a hassle for anyone taking me. It's also at the very time the roads are chocka with school traffic, so I've asked for a change of time.
Grammaretto it doeslook as if the house is sending you a message doesn't it? Grasp the nettle while summer is here; so much easier to attract buyers and look for your own wee palace.
It must be so hard for you, deciding on such a huge upheaval but believe me, it is all easier while you are still reasonably hale as health can deteriorate so quickly and trap you in place.
I am eternally glad that I saw the signs of things to come 15 years ago and moved here to my small corner.
So much wretched rain but at least I don't have to go out in it. Small mercies. I'm thankful.