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Doodle Sun 03-May-26 19:56:19

Yes another new thread. A gentle chat for old friends and new

Doodle Mon 29-Jun-26 22:10:59

400 visitors NfK that’s amazing. What a great turnout.
Ooh how lovely to have a dip in the sea especially with your DS and DGS . I haven’t seen the sea for ages and I miss it.
Grammaretto so sorry about your bad back. Hope your purchases help.
Lovely to have visitors like that. I remember a while ago you had the cornice rebuilt. Was that the one?
Thanks again Ixion . Please send love from us all back xx

NotSpaghetti Mon 29-Jun-26 08:48:30

Thank you!
Sending love for a steady recovery.

ixion Mon 29-Jun-26 08:44:57

Message from Kaimoana -

Love to my lovely Lobstars

NotSpaghetti Mon 29-Jun-26 01:41:54

How wonderful Grammaretto to have watched a plaster expert at work.
I spent a happy few days intermittently watching master plasterers recreating curvy details on different cornices. In additionhat beautiful movements if layering rather than moulding.

Grammaretto Sun 28-Jun-26 23:16:50

Thanks ixion for sharing Kaimoana news.
Like NotSpag I hope it's the planned surgery. Thinking of her🤞

Crikey! 400 visitors Nfk I wish I'd been there 😊 must have been a wonderful if too hot weekend especially ending with your swim.

Quite a coincidence that your stomping ground was mine, if only for a year in my case as I went on to study ceramics in Kent.
I still see one of my house mates from those days who's an artist in Cambridge.

I've been feeling so bad with my sore back. I've ordered a wheat pad and a tens machine in the hope that it can't do harm and may do good.

Relief came briefly in the form of a sweet couple who rang my bell and she said "remember me?" I gradually did and invited them in for coffee and cake.
She was the plaster expert who rebuilt my cornice after my first ceiling fell down!
She asked her DH to see if he could guess which bit she did, he couldn't as the join is invisible.

They are both plasterwork restorers and work all over the country if not the world.

Night night Lobstars xxxx

NfkDumpling Sun 28-Jun-26 22:42:06

ixion thank you for letting us all know about Kaimoana. I do hope it's nothing horrendously serious and she'll soon be back with us. And thank you for passing on our best wishes and that we're all rooting for her.

It seems strange to me that people think Norfolk (Nfk) is a lovely place to live. I've not lived anywhere else except Norwich and the Broads, but there are so many lovely places in Britain which, to me, make Norfolk look boring. But certainly there are many places here which would suit your description NotSpag. Although it's best to avoid the posh bit of the north of Norfolk unless you can afford a helipad!

It also seems strange to hear you reminiscing about Norwich Art School Grammaretto. It's huge now and apparently one of the best in the country. I lived (with DH!) in a flat at the top of Grapes Hill when we were first married and push started our old car down the old hill many times. We also watched those terrace houses being demolished, and the new big roundabout and dual carriageway being built. Must have been around 1970. I worked in St Giles Street. My grandmothers both went to the Quaker Meeting House in Goat Lane. It was very much my part of Norwich. We could have passed in the street many times!

I'm just recovering from our town's open gardens weekend. Including mine. It seemed like a good idea to volunteer it so as to get me off my backside and actually doing some weeding. It all went really rather well, despite the heat, with over 400 visitors over the two days. I thought all was lost on Friday when the temperature really went up, as one side of the garden was in full sun and everything wilted badly. The outside thermometer nearby read 43 degrees!! Incredibly though, with lots of watering, despite the warm night they all recovered!

Met up with DS and DGS at Mundesley this evening for a dip in the sea. Including Kira who swims very well, but kept trying to rescue me. It was bliss nontheless.
Now off to bed!

NotSpaghetti Sun 28-Jun-26 21:13:27

Oh poor Kaimoana I hope this is the "planned" surgery rather than an emergency

And hope you are doing OK too Naughtyneine

Doodle Sun 28-Jun-26 21:02:06

Great news ixion thank you for letting us know. I’ve been very worried. Hope that whatever treatment she receives is good and she’s well cared for,

ixion Sun 28-Jun-26 20:09:42

I received a message from Kaimoana this morning🥳

She apologised for not replying to my missives but says that she is 'in hospital, more details to follow'.

I said we had been missing her and that we had been worried, and sent her 🦞love and hugs.

I hope this is OK - I don't feel that I have broken any confidences in sharing this and will obviously share anything more that I may hear.
I am sure she will understand.

Doodle Sat 27-Jun-26 22:29:05

I’ve only been to Norfolk once. DH and I went with our sons and dog on the Broads. We had a great time but just as we were packing to come home Dh bent to pick up our little dog and put his back out, he had to have a pain killing injection for a local doctor and I had to drive all the way home in our new car. I was terrified.
ixion I’m so pleased we moved. Our elder son was saying recently that many of his friends have parents in their old family home and are struggling to cope. Maybe one or other or in some cases both have health problems and need a lot of input from their family.
I realise we are lucky in that both sons and families live very close by. There is a lift so if I can’t do stairs I can still get around. Being a flat everything is in one level. The doorways are wide and would accommodate a wheelchair. The ensuite has a walk in shower. The rooms are big so plenty of space. Someone gets paid to do the garden, the cleaning and sort out all the building problems like roof and gutters. All we have to look after is what’s our side of the front door. Gated entry system and so I feel quite safe here. Neighbours are great and we get on well.
Grammaretto i Hope you find your safe place where you are happy. Sorry about the pain. Glad the codeine helps. Please make sure you drink a lot of water and have lots of fibre though.
I too am really worried about Kaimoana . I wish we knew how she was. Just hoping somehow she will be back in touch.

ixion Sat 27-Jun-26 21:37:58

Quiet night, Grammaretto. Here's hoping x

Grammaretto Sat 27-Jun-26 21:20:14

I know you live in Norfolk Jan. Lucky you! I was just going down memory lane.

I have had the laziest day in a long time. My lodgers are still on holiday: no house viewers: I donated some books to the local museum and had tea at the Gaelic café. Now watching something on Netflix and wondering if it's too early to go to bed.

I'm sorry you're still sweltering. Ixion
I think tomorrow is supposed to be cooler. I hope your delphinium survive.

It's wild and windy here so I am getting worried about falling trees as well as a leaky ceiling. I'm trying to pin down a roofer without success.
Right. Bed it is.
Night night Lobstars

ixion Sat 27-Jun-26 20:14:03

We should have moved 20 years ago, I maintain. Downsized, settled in something smaller, easier to manage and not somewhere always needing something to be done on it. My dreams were always a Manhattan -style loft apartment or a coach house with a cobbled courtyard. Room for a steamer chair, table for a G and T and a good book and a tub with a palm and very little else.
DS says before any thoughts on moving, I would need to consult a map showing the proximity of a nearby Waitrose.
How rude.

However, where else currently gives us the luxury of being four floors apart when we are I am hot and crotchety? Me in my top floor sewing room eyrie, Mr.I in the basement with his trains and wine cellar.

I am sorry your back is giving so much pain, Grammaretto. Were you not having another helper? I hope you find something that you fall in love with.

I have messaged Kaimoana on several occasions but no reply.
There again not surprising if she can't see to read.😢

Special thoughts for NN🌷

Hopefully showers and cooler temperatures tomorrow so looking forward to at least getting my delphiniums in, they are looking a bit woebegone.
Maybe they are a tad disoriented being sat in ice cream tubs in the downstairs cloakroom. 🚽

Jan16 Sat 27-Jun-26 18:39:35

Actually live in good old Norfolk!!!!

Grammaretto Sat 27-Jun-26 16:43:21

I miss Norfolk. I spent a year at the school of art in Norwich as a teenager. My first proper time away from home, fending for myself, paying bills and always poor.
I shared a room in a tiny terraced house off Grapes Hill. It's all been demolished now.
My furniture was an orange box (wooden crate) from the market.
There were a lot of pubs to frequent. Also churches but I went to the Quaker meeting in Goat Lane (love the names) where often a kind Friend would invite me and my pals home for Sunday lunch in Unthank road.

I used to get on a train or bike out to one of the villages on the Broads and sketch in the Summer. Years later, on studying my family tree I was spooked to discover that my dad's great grandparents came from that same village! Loddon, Hales, Berghapton some of the places.

NotSpaghetti Sat 27-Jun-26 12:11:19

Hi Jan,
I know you love Norfolk but sadly it's not for me.
We did live there for a couple of years when my husband did his MA many moons ago

But I do keep seeing places for sale over there - and my friend on the Norfolk Suffolk border is happy there.

I really appreciate the suggestion
Thank you

Jan16 Sat 27-Jun-26 11:56:56

Hi NotSpaghetti. No idea where you live now but have a look round Norfolk. So many beautiful villages, beaches, old cottages which probably need work doing on them, friendly people etc etc! Just have a peep via the internet!! Good luck!

Grammaretto Sat 27-Jun-26 10:32:01

Thanks. Doodle. for your wise advice. I am listening. I agree and won't settle for a low offer.

I got on well at the GP. Although she gives out pills like sweeties. She says I don't have to take them but I must say the codeine does relieve the pain and allow sleep.
I have a physio appointment to look forward to.

I'm sitting, sweating, with a hot water bottle behind me. I slept on an ice pack last night.
🥶

I am sad that Kaimoana can't read. It must be devastating for such a reader and writer to lose their sight.

I hope Cherry and other Lobstars are ok.

Doodle Fri 26-Jun-26 22:11:07

Grammaretto Hope you got the help you needed at the GPS.
You really love your home and garden. Don’t settle for less than you want. If you are desperate to sell it’s one thing but if you can hold on for a bit don’t accept an offer you’re not happy with. Please consider too what it would be like if you were less able. Make sure your new home is suitable for life as you get older. Hope you find just the place for you.
Notspaghetti i Hope you too find what you are looking for.
When Dh and I found our apartment we knew straight away this was for us. Everyone loved it. My DIL says it’s like being in holiday all the time. We were so happy here.
NN I’m so sorry. I can understand living bereavement. Times like this making you feel so sad. I wish there was something that could be done. I wish you could get to celebrate his birthday with him. 💕
Love those lobsters.
Nfk as far as I’m aware would be Norfolk.
I’m concerned I have emailed Kaimoana but haven’t had a reply. I’m hoping she’ll b in touch soon.
Talking of being in touch, are you around Cherry? We haven’t forgotten you. Or Mammissimo and Spud
Hope everyone is coping in this heat.

Naughtyneine Fri 26-Jun-26 15:13:43

Yes NS... apparently it's called a living bereavement.....
Grammaretto...start a little planning now...see which ones you love ...maybe pot up a few.... Because it was 9 months before we found the cottage and moved in I had pots galore at my parents in law...natural geraniums, hostas, agapanthus, dwarf lilac ( already in a pot) to name but a few. It made leaving behind the garden I'd cherished a lot easier

NotSpaghetti Fri 26-Jun-26 14:42:03

Oh Naughtyneine, another sad milestone day
Such a painful and beautiful memory
❤️
You are grieving for what might have or should have been

Grammaretto Fri 26-Jun-26 14:30:16

Where did those beautiful lobsters materialise from NN?
Whoever made them is extremely talented.
Was it you perchance?

We agree with eachother NotSpaghetti
It would need to be. very special indeed
to compensate for giving up this.
I think I would be able to take plant cuttings.
Although I look forward to creating another smaller garden..

I'm in the doctor's waiting room with my list of ailments in my pocket 😅

Naughtyneine Fri 26-Jun-26 14:02:42

Hi my lovely Lobstars. I'm sorry for being absent for the last week or so.

We came home on Sunday and on Monday another rock in the road appeared..... We've weathered so many over the last few years and thought we might have come thru the other side but no, here we are again Hey Ho, thankfully we have our faith so our Padre Pio mantra is standing is all in good stead...Hope Pray and Don't Worry

Thank you for your concern re my ribs....I can't lie they have been very sore and this episodes of being called able to breathe in but not out have not been fun, my inhaler that normally gets used once or twice at the change of seasons in March and September is in use at least twice daily. The heat probably doesn't help..I am glad we are not still in Maevemouse this week

Kaimoana...please stay.. we'll find a way to keep in contact, I am looking up a sort of reading pen thing and will get back to you

Grammaretto...I so feel for you and the house hunting....I really hope the right thing happens soon. When it does can you take cuttings etc from your garden to put in your new garden?

Lovely to see you Nfk ( does that stand for something?), I too wish we could meet up...I nearly met Grammaretto at one of the Glasgow meet ups but it was pre op and DH was not keen on me travelling at that stage( he was probably right) but can you imagine how long we'd need....it would definitely have to be residential methinks.

This time 22 years ago I was meeting my first Grandchild aged 12 hours at the (I think its called) Western General in Glasgow. I hadn't planned to be up there as the plan was for me to go up when DD1 was home but she phoned me and said I just wanted to hear you say I love you before I go into hospital....cue me to book the earliest train and hotfoot it 400 miles North. He was born 2 hours after I arrived. Lovely memories always of course tinged with sadness....I need a bit of a slap today I think...it's one of those think about anything remotely sad and the memory rolls out of your eyes and down your cheeks.
As you can see you were never far from my mind whilst I was away

NotSpaghetti Fri 26-Jun-26 13:53:28

This is exactly the issue Grammaretto. WHY are we moving?
I would like to be more rural but still want s.p.a.c.e inside- and a decent sized garden. Maybe ⅓ acre or even a little less... we currently have a very long garden for a terraced house but fairly narrow.

Modern houses have too small gardens - and if we are going to go "modern" I don't really want a "traditional" style one... Some mid century houses have pleasing shapes but oh my gosh the prices!

Another case of champagne taste but beer money
We are happy enough where we are - just a bit too busy.

Having had a drug dealer buy the beautiful, fully period restored and huge end terrace next door once 😬😬😬 with newly refitted stained and etched glass, my husband says he wants this next house to be detached.

So, detached, period, village with a shop, ideally a surgery not too far away, large garden, big rooms, space for a studio ... and cheap as chips???
Open to suggestions ladies!

grin

ixion Fri 26-Jun-26 13:24:17

Yay🥳