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Philosophical ideas to get through hard times

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Dawn22 Mon 16-Mar-20 19:14:26

I would like to start a thread about what we can learn from the old stoics and philosophers and there is much to know about there take on life and then how we can apply that to 21st living.

I liked this so here goes

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.
"A fight is going on inside me" he said to the boys. It is a fight between two wolves. One has anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, self-pity, guilt, lies and ego."
He continued; "The other is good- he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, kindness, empathy, truth, compassion and faith.
"The same fight is going on inside you too Grandson - and inside every other person too."
The Grandson looked and asked "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied "The one you feed".

Hope this message helps.

May7 Sat 28-Mar-20 17:21:45

Yep I agree.
I say to my DCs
Perfection is the enemy
Along the same lines really

trisher Sat 28-Mar-20 17:23:15

I always like these first lines from Philip Larkin
"The trees are coming into leaf
Like something almost being said"
Full poem here www.goodreads.com/quotes/696925-the-trees-are-coming-into-leaf-like-something-almost-being

Dawn22 Sat 28-Mar-20 23:34:52

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Thanks May and Trisher.

Dawn22 Sun 29-Mar-20 11:11:58

"Don't set your mind on things you don't possess..... but count the blessing you actually possess and think how much you would desire them if they were not already yours."
- Marcus Aurelius.

There is much time to think these days and our minds can turn to problems that beset everyone but to use your mind to think of one good thing you have and just to be truly grateful for that.
Take care today as best we can.
Dawn.

loopyloo Sun 29-Mar-20 11:27:32

Have long appreciated Cicero's 'all you need is a library and a garden'. As a country, lets hope we move towards giving more people access to these things.

May7 Sun 29-Mar-20 11:34:04

Against the assault of laughter, nothing can stand. — Mark Twain

toscalily Sun 29-Mar-20 12:33:37

“The world changes when we change. The world softens when we soften. The world loves us when we choose to love the world.” ― Marianne Williamson

Dawn22 Sun 29-Mar-20 22:59:48

"Worse than war is the fear of war."
- Seneca

= explanation of modern term of anticipatory anxiety.

Not to worry about anything. It is bed time now.
Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Mon 30-Mar-20 01:06:38

No legacy so rich as honesty
SHAKESPEARE
night night

Dawn22 Mon 30-Mar-20 09:06:40

"The cure for boredom is curiosity. There is no cure for curiosity. "
-Ellen Parr

Less to do these days. Maybe too much time to think. Not so good. Trying to put good things into my mind and yes there is everything to be curious about. Literally everything.
Take care today.
Dawn.

Dawn22 Tue 31-Mar-20 08:10:58

Hope you slept the
Sleep of the just last night.
Dawn

May7 Tue 31-Mar-20 10:33:24

I know why the caged bird sings
Maya Angelou

Dawn22 Tue 31-Mar-20 18:36:49

"Choose to be optimistic. It feels better."
- Dalai Lama XIV.

Good to remember this.

Am going to look up that quote above May. Thank you. I like Maya Angelou. A font of hard graft women's wisdom.

Dawn22 Tue 31-Mar-20 22:12:08

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Wed 01-Apr-20 07:27:00

Good morning Dawn
Try to be a rainbow in someone else's cloud
MAYA Angelou

Dawn22 Wed 01-Apr-20 16:47:05

Thanks May. Good gem.?

"You cannot awaken (become aware) in your comfort zone. You can only awaken out of your comfort zone. This is a time for opportunity. Use it. What looks bad has actually an essential purpose. "

- Eckhart Tolle

Dawn22 Wed 01-Apr-20 19:17:13

"Life is but what you deem it. "
- Marcus Aurelius.

And so it is the hope that we can bring about what we want for ourselves. But life gets in the way of that. Live as good as we can, the best that we can. I love this old wisdom but it is sure hard to put it into practice .
Take care. Dawn

Dawn22 Wed 01-Apr-20 23:02:10

When we can no longer change a situation we are challenged to change ourselves.
Victor Frankl.

Good night all.
Sleep the sleep of the just.
-Anon.

May7 Wed 01-Apr-20 23:23:42

Night night

grumppa Wed 01-Apr-20 23:25:41

Life is a jest, and all things show it;
I thought so once, and now I know it.

John Gay's epitaph

May7 Thu 02-Apr-20 20:43:59

That's how I feel today
Night night xx

Dawn22 Thu 02-Apr-20 21:54:22

There are only three events in a man's life; birth, life and death; he is not conscious of being born, he dies in pain and he forgets to live.
- Jean de La Bruyere.

Utter truth in what he says yet we can try and prove him wrong by living our lives to the best of our ability.

Sleep well one and all.
"Sleep the sleep of the just." Anon.

Night night too May ?

Dawn22 Fri 03-Apr-20 20:35:10

"Nobody can hurt you without your permission. "
- Mahatma Ghandi.

Good night.
Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Fri 03-Apr-20 22:40:24

“If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.”
Night night

Dawn22 Sat 04-Apr-20 13:40:27

"My day passes between logic, whistling, going for walks and being depressed."
- Ludwig Wittgenstein

I am sure there are people who can identify with this at the current time.
Take care one and all.