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Philosophical ideas to get through hard times

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Dawn22 Mon 16-Mar-20 19:14:26

I would like to start a thread about what we can learn from the old stoics and philosophers and there is much to know about there take on life and then how we can apply that to 21st living.

I liked this so here goes

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.
"A fight is going on inside me" he said to the boys. It is a fight between two wolves. One has anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, self-pity, guilt, lies and ego."
He continued; "The other is good- he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, kindness, empathy, truth, compassion and faith.
"The same fight is going on inside you too Grandson - and inside every other person too."
The Grandson looked and asked "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied "The one you feed".

Hope this message helps.

Dawn22 Wed 29-Apr-20 13:17:01

Change before you have to.
- Jack Welch.

rosecarmel Wed 29-Apr-20 07:30:23

Do one thing every day that scares you
-- Eleanor Roosevelt

Dawn22 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:58:37

I love sleep you know. My life has a tendency to fall apart when l am awake.
- Ernest Hemingway

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:55:18

I cannot always control what goes on outside. But I can always control what goes on inside.

Wayne Dyer

rosecarmel Tue 28-Apr-20 00:01:54

I went to the country - just the other day
To see my Uncle Bill and sorta pass the time away
I asked him how he'd been - since last, I'd passed his way
He rubbed his chin - here's what he had to say.

"My wife's been sick - the young'ns, too
And I'm durn near - down with the flu
The cow's gone dry - and them hens won't lay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The hogs took the cholera and they've all done died
The bees got mad - and they left the hive
The weevils got the corn and the rain rotted the hay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The porch rotted down - that's more expense
The durned old mule - he tore down the fence
The mortgage is due and - I can't pay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The cow broke in the field and eat up the beans
The durn rabbits - they got the turnip greens
And my Ma-in-law just moved in to stay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

My land's so poor - so hard and "yeller"
You have to set on a sack of fetilizer to raise an "umbreller"
And it rains out here - nearly ever' day
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The well's gone dry and I have to tote the water
Up from the spring - about a mile and a quarter
My helper, he quit - for the lack of pay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The house it leaks - it needs a new top
When it rains - it wets ever'thing we got
The chimney fell down - just yesterday
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The corn meals gone and the meat's run out
Got nothin' to kill to put in the smokehouse
The preacher's comin' Sunday - to spend the day
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The canned stuff's spoiled - else the jar's got broke
And all we got left is one old Billy goat
We're gonna have a new baby about the first of May
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

My crop it rotted - in the ground
I asked for another loan but the banker turned me down
But - we're still a-livin' and we're prayin' for better days
So - after all, ever'thing's in purty good shape."

-- Hank Williams Sr

May7 Mon 27-Apr-20 23:21:35

Mahatma Gandhi
"To lose patience is to lose the battle.”

Dawn22 Mon 27-Apr-20 23:15:25

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Mon 27-Apr-20 18:43:31

The Laughing Heart by Charles Bukowski

Your life is your life.
Don't let it be clubbed into dark submission.
Be on the watch there are ways out.
There is light somewhere.
It may not be much light but it beats the darkness.
Be on the watch.
The gods will offer you chances.
Know them.
Take them.
You can't beat death but you can beat death in life sometimes.
And the more often you learn to do it, the more light there will be.
Your life is your life.
Know it while you have it.
You are marvellous.
The gods wait to delight in you.

vissos Mon 27-Apr-20 01:12:00

Don't do what you can't undo, until you've considered what you can't do once you've done it. King Shrewd (character, Robin Hobb)

Dawn22 Sun 26-Apr-20 23:04:40

It is not for our success that we will be remembered but rather how we kept going after repeated failure.
Nelson Mandela.

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Sun 26-Apr-20 20:39:44

We can still alter our course. It is NOT too late. We still have options. We need the courage to change our values to the regeneration of our families, the life that surrounds us.

Oren Lyons

May7 Sun 26-Apr-20 00:18:23

You cannot prevent the birds of sadness from passing over your head, but you can prevent them making a nest in your hair. Chinese proverb

Dawn22 Sat 25-Apr-20 23:33:24

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Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn xx

rosecarmel Sat 25-Apr-20 21:32:15

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Dawn22 Sat 25-Apr-20 20:05:36

Preparedness by Edwin Markham

For all your days prepare
And meet them ever alike
When you are the anvil, bear
When you are the hammer, strike.

Sterling words all above.

rosecarmel Sat 25-Apr-20 18:05:34

“Come, see the true flowers
of this pained world.”
― Basho

May7 Thu 23-Apr-20 22:22:33

Trouble knocked at the door, but, hearing laughter, hurried away.” Benjamin Franklin

Dawn22 Thu 23-Apr-20 22:04:18

Resilience is accepting your new reality, even if it is less good than the one you had before. You can fight it, ..... Or you can accept that and try to put together something that is good.

Elizabeth Edwards. 1949-2010.

Take care. Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Thu 23-Apr-20 16:09:52

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.
Elbert Hubbard.

Amen

Dawn22 Wed 22-Apr-20 23:03:44

A ship is safe in harbour but that is not what a ship is made of.
John Shedd

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon

May7 Wed 22-Apr-20 01:03:18

Dance me to your beauty with a burning violin
Dance me through the panic 'til I'm gathered safely in
Lift me like an olive branch and be my homeward dove
Dance me to the end of love
Leonard Cohen

Dawn22 Tue 21-Apr-20 23:05:43

What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly. Mortica Addams.

Good night friends where ever you are.
Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

Dawn22 Tue 21-Apr-20 17:41:14

Sometimes l can only groan and suffer and pour out my despair at the piano.
Frederic Chopin.

May7 Tue 21-Apr-20 16:55:18

You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
Eleanor Roosevelt

Dawn22 Mon 20-Apr-20 23:05:56

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.