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Philosophical ideas to get through hard times

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Dawn22 Mon 16-Mar-20 19:14:26

I would like to start a thread about what we can learn from the old stoics and philosophers and there is much to know about there take on life and then how we can apply that to 21st living.

I liked this so here goes

An old Cherokee was teaching his grandson about life.
"A fight is going on inside me" he said to the boys. It is a fight between two wolves. One has anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, self-pity, guilt, lies and ego."
He continued; "The other is good- he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, kindness, empathy, truth, compassion and faith.
"The same fight is going on inside you too Grandson - and inside every other person too."
The Grandson looked and asked "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied "The one you feed".

Hope this message helps.

Dawn22 Mon 27-Apr-20 18:43:31

The Laughing Heart by Charles Bukowski

Your life is your life.
Don't let it be clubbed into dark submission.
Be on the watch there are ways out.
There is light somewhere.
It may not be much light but it beats the darkness.
Be on the watch.
The gods will offer you chances.
Know them.
Take them.
You can't beat death but you can beat death in life sometimes.
And the more often you learn to do it, the more light there will be.
Your life is your life.
Know it while you have it.
You are marvellous.
The gods wait to delight in you.

Dawn22 Mon 27-Apr-20 23:15:25

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Mon 27-Apr-20 23:21:35

Mahatma Gandhi
"To lose patience is to lose the battle.”

rosecarmel Tue 28-Apr-20 00:01:54

I went to the country - just the other day
To see my Uncle Bill and sorta pass the time away
I asked him how he'd been - since last, I'd passed his way
He rubbed his chin - here's what he had to say.

"My wife's been sick - the young'ns, too
And I'm durn near - down with the flu
The cow's gone dry - and them hens won't lay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The hogs took the cholera and they've all done died
The bees got mad - and they left the hive
The weevils got the corn and the rain rotted the hay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The porch rotted down - that's more expense
The durned old mule - he tore down the fence
The mortgage is due and - I can't pay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The cow broke in the field and eat up the beans
The durn rabbits - they got the turnip greens
And my Ma-in-law just moved in to stay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

My land's so poor - so hard and "yeller"
You have to set on a sack of fetilizer to raise an "umbreller"
And it rains out here - nearly ever' day
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The well's gone dry and I have to tote the water
Up from the spring - about a mile and a quarter
My helper, he quit - for the lack of pay
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The house it leaks - it needs a new top
When it rains - it wets ever'thing we got
The chimney fell down - just yesterday
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The corn meals gone and the meat's run out
Got nothin' to kill to put in the smokehouse
The preacher's comin' Sunday - to spend the day
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

The canned stuff's spoiled - else the jar's got broke
And all we got left is one old Billy goat
We're gonna have a new baby about the first of May
But - we're still a-livin' - so EVER'THING'S Okay.

My crop it rotted - in the ground
I asked for another loan but the banker turned me down
But - we're still a-livin' and we're prayin' for better days
So - after all, ever'thing's in purty good shape."

-- Hank Williams Sr

May7 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:55:18

I cannot always control what goes on outside. But I can always control what goes on inside.

Wayne Dyer

Dawn22 Tue 28-Apr-20 21:58:37

I love sleep you know. My life has a tendency to fall apart when l am awake.
- Ernest Hemingway

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

rosecarmel Wed 29-Apr-20 07:30:23

Do one thing every day that scares you
-- Eleanor Roosevelt

Dawn22 Wed 29-Apr-20 13:17:01

Change before you have to.
- Jack Welch.

May7 Wed 29-Apr-20 16:35:05

"No one can terrorize a whole nation, unless we are all his accomplices."
Edward R. Murrow

Dawn22 Wed 29-Apr-20 23:23:02

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon

rosecarmel Wed 29-Apr-20 23:52:30

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves -- Viktor Frankl

Dawn22 Thu 30-Apr-20 22:47:47

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

rosecarmel Fri 01-May-20 02:28:06

“It is not fear that stops you from doing the brave and true thing in your daily life. Rather, the problem is avoidance. You want to feel comfortable so you avoid doing or saying the thing that will evoke fear and other difficult emotions. Avoidance will make you feel less vulnerable in the short run but, it will never make you less afraid.”
― Harriet Lerner

May7 Fri 01-May-20 09:23:15

It's not the wakin', it's the risin'
It is the groundin' of a foot uncompromisin'
It's not forgoin' of the lie
It's not the openin' of eyes
It's not the wakin', it's the risin'
It's not the shade we should be cast in
It's the light and it's the obstacle that casts it
It's the heat that drives the light
It's the fire it ignites
It's not the wakin', it's the risin'
It's not the song, it is the singin'
It's the heaven of the human spirit ringin'
It is the bringin' of the line
It is the bearin' of the lie
It's not the wakin', it's the risin'
And I could cry power (power)
Andrew Hozier

lovebeigecardigans1955 Fri 01-May-20 09:36:19

"Que sera sera" as Doris Day once sang. Whatever will be will be, the future's not ours to see.
Always let your conscience be your guide - I think that's from another song - Disney perhaps?
Do as you would be done by - Charles Kingsley I think.

Dawn22 Fri 01-May-20 21:06:50

Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must have.

Charles Bukowski.

Needed to see this quote today as l went well and truly crazy today. Could not help myself.
Great work above everyone.
Dawn.

rosecarmel Sat 02-May-20 03:04:51

“When you want to know how things really work, study them when they're coming apart.”
― William Gibson

May7 Sat 02-May-20 11:34:28

“Happiness can be found in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.”
Albus Dumbledore

Dawn22 Sat 02-May-20 22:54:17

Don't look up to anyone.
Don't look down on anyone.
Sadhguru

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

May7 Sun 03-May-20 22:18:41

Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” – Marie Curie

Dawn22 Mon 04-May-20 19:09:52

Once you choose hope anything is possible.
Christopher Reeves.

Dawn22 Mon 04-May-20 22:10:20

Sleep the sleep of the just. Anon.

rosecarmel Mon 04-May-20 22:14:10

Because philosophy arises from awe, a philosopher is bound in his way to be a lover of myths and poetic fables. Poets and philosophers are alike in being big with wonder.

--Thomas Aquinas

Dawn22 Tue 05-May-20 17:17:36

How happy is the little stone
By Emily Dickenson

How happy is the little Stone
That rambles in the Road alone
And doesn't care about Careers
And Exigencies never fears -
Whose coat of elemental Brown
A passing Universe put on
And independent as the Sun
Associates or glows alone,
Fulfilling absolute Decree
In casual simplicity.

Interesting how she uses sporadic capital letters. I suppose for best effect. Good little poem.

May7 Tue 05-May-20 21:59:12

Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May."
- William Shakespeare