Hi Ladies?. Sarahmob I hope you get the trouser situation sorted before they get much bigger -could be embarrassing ?. I always think trousers can be tricky if have to buy without trying on- they vary so much!
Maybe for your wedding anniversary you could revisit the day so to speak. Maybe watch a film that was in the cinema at the time,listen to music that was in the charts that week ,google the headlines etc? You could maybe recreate the meal you had on the day? I dont know if you live in same area but maybe revisit venues of the day? It's a shame about the river cruise. Where were you going to?
It's a shame your daughter wasnt able to visit Whiff?. Thankfully you can see them Tuesday and i think plans being changed is the new normal ?. Sometimes I do feel Mothers Day is a little like valentine's day,its what happens on the other 364 days that really matters.im sure your sons love you both dearly Fourormore. I think for the younger generation a text or WhatsApp message is viewed as the norm. Sadly physical cards are less popular although there is a new tendency for the personal touch. I know my daughter always organises her husbands families cards etc. All families are different I suppose. As my parents were very involved in the girls upbringing Mothers day was automatically a joint celebration. She has carried this on. I remember a while ago there was a grandparents day,I think it was in September but it never really took off!
Yes,Whiff I'm certainly less stressed. Work made a massive difference. The manager I was having so much difficulty with was sacked for bullying! The civil service is another world. It's as simple as being treated as a human being whose life and health is valued which certainly wasnt case in private sector health and social care.The disparity between the two is truly shocking when you experience it first hand. It's also nice to have financial security even though its potentially only for a year.
It's been a strange year,something we may often say but sometimes the reality of which may not be fully apparent for some just yet. I know there are other threads on here about bucket lists and how a year when life has pretty much been on pause has changed our outlook. I know in todays Guardian there are a couple of articles about how people may struggle on some level with the "opening up" of society. For me the first vaccination was also a game changer. I feel less vulnerable and more content. Both my daughters and I seem to feel as though we are emerging from hibernation.! Althogh I always use moisturiser that's been it. I love make up but have barely used it in the past year! I've always been showered and dressed but that was it.! It could be because its Spring, it could be because we are emerging from survival mode but pampering feels needed! I decided to put make up on today and tbh it was quite a strange experience! It was me,but wasnt the me of a year ago.! My hair is quite long(comparitively) and it's natural colour which to be honest is a drab mousey brown. I think my skin tone has changed,my face is definitely less defined and the added weight has added another chin. I've always been very envious of larger ladies who manager to have a slim face! I didnt feel negative, more curious as though really looking at myself for the first time in nearly a year and thinking yes,I've changed. Hope that makes sense!
I was lucky today my youngest daughter arrived with a bacon nap and a latte. She also bought a card and 6 home made scones,raspberries and strawberries plus some chocolates! Oh and a nice body lotion. Not ideal when about to start a strict diet regime when ?. Still I had one scone and the fruit which was divine,the rest can be frozen and used as occasional treat?. Flowers arrived from eldest plus Grace Dents book and we had a lovely video call. All in all a lovely day?.