Dyslexia is a title covering a wide range of problems. the first educational psychologist my friend's children saw only tested whether her children could see and read individual letters correctly, which they could, and therefore said they did not have dyslexia. It took a full and detailed consultation with a private specialist psychologist, to say it was dyslexia and describe the problems correctly.
I once heard a dyslexia expert talk on the subject and she explained how complex the many conditions the word 'dyslexia' covers. She spoke of working with children who had partial dyslexia. They could encode (write) correctly but could not decode (read) and vice versa. Plus the memory problems my friend's children have and other aspects of the problem.
Rosequartz, it might be worth pursuing the educational assessment route. My friend's children had a background similar to that you describe.
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