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Why do British royal children not go to state schools like the Scandanavian royals?

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varian Tue 23-Aug-22 19:12:25

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are about to send their three children to a private school near their new home in Windsor at a reported cost of over £50 pa just for the fees.

Would it not be better for them to send them to the local primary school?

www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/daniela-elser-kate-and-williams-kids-enrolling-in-ritzy-new-school-is-tone-deaf/HM2K3IDGIS3T3QG2WXLV67FIEU/

Joseanne Wed 24-Aug-22 08:15:27

Galaxy

I am in my fifties and still have a teenager, they did the whole visiting a local private school. They noticed immediately the differences.

I am still talking about children the age of Louis, Charlotte and George and prep schools not teenagers.

volver Wed 24-Aug-22 08:19:20

I don't mean the children are peasants as you are probably quite aware Joseanne

I had never heard this thing before I joined Gransnet, about how people using private healthcare/education etc are really doing a good thing because it frees up the State system for those who need it.

I find that bizarre. It's my loony lefty tendencies, I suppose...

nanna8 Wed 24-Aug-22 08:21:20

Most of my children went to private schools. Not much difference between a good state school and a private school but a huge difference between some of the state schools. Not so much equipment, lousy teachers ( sorry but is true) and no follow up on problems. We took one of ours out of a state school because they didn’t even know her name when we went for a parent teacher interview because she was quiet and well behaved. She was top of most of her classes within a year at her private school and never looked back.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 24-Aug-22 08:22:47

I am pro choice in every walk of life.

If I cannot afford something but others can, I am not jealous, I do not want to prevent them for being able to choose to purchase that item, whether it be education, a car, or a mansion.

Myself and my siblings all had a different education experience from the local comp, grammar school, boarding school and private day school. There are no animosities, we had the schooling that suited us at the time,

Our children had the education/school that suited them at the time as do our grandchildren, and I will do my very best to keep that choice.

volver Wed 24-Aug-22 08:23:56

In Australia, I believe?

Proved the point, imo. There are a large proportion of private schools there and the relatively small and marginalised State sector has got so bad that some schools don't even know the pupils' names.

nanna8 Wed 24-Aug-22 08:24:12

If all those with private health went public here the system would totally collapse. Ditto the school system. Maybe it is different there. They dock your pay here if you are wealthy enough to afford private health and won’t pay. Good idea.

volver Wed 24-Aug-22 08:26:10

Our children had the education/school that suited them at the time as do our grandchildren, and I will do my very best to keep that choice.

And hell l mend the rest of you?

Sometimes I get a flash of clarity about why the Tories keep getting in south of the border.

Galaxy Wed 24-Aug-22 08:27:11

I think it's possible to make a critique of private education whilst understanding that it isnt always an attack on the parents who use it. In my twenties I certainly gave thought to what the schools were like in the area I moved to, I dont think this means I am a bad person grin nor does it mean I cant critique the system which means schools in some areas are better than others.

volver Wed 24-Aug-22 08:27:20

nanna8

If all those with private health went public here the system would totally collapse. Ditto the school system. Maybe it is different there. They dock your pay here if you are wealthy enough to afford private health and won’t pay. Good idea.

So like taxing the well off more then?

How radical.

JaneJudge Wed 24-Aug-22 08:27:47

I know of a couple of seriously wealthy people (self funding) whose children all went to the local (state) schools. I think it is definitely done by some smile not the Royals obviously as they need to have their family splashed all over the papers in order to keep their popularity up and their coffers

GrannyGravy13 Wed 24-Aug-22 08:29:27

volver

^Our children had the education/school that suited them at the time as do our grandchildren, and I will do my very best to keep that choice.^

And hell l mend the rest of you?

Sometimes I get a flash of clarity about why the Tories keep getting in south of the border.

I get the impression that you would like the Asian version of schools, prescribed hair cut, learning by rote and churning out little carbon copies.

The rich Asians send their children abroad to private schools, as they can see the advantages of choice.

volver Wed 24-Aug-22 08:33:11

GrannyGravy13

volver

Our children had the education/school that suited them at the time as do our grandchildren, and I will do my very best to keep that choice.

And hell l mend the rest of you?

Sometimes I get a flash of clarity about why the Tories keep getting in south of the border.

I get the impression that you would like the Asian version of schools, prescribed hair cut, learning by rote and churning out little carbon copies.

The rich Asians send their children abroad to private schools, as they can see the advantages of choice.

You get the wrong impression then. Kids can have blue hair and wear what they like as far as I'm concerned.

As long as everybody who would benefit from it gets a good education. And it doesn't depend on how rich daddy is. Or even how "comfortable" daddy is.

Joseanne Wed 24-Aug-22 08:42:23

Im splitting hairs again, but why keep saying how rich daddy is in your comments volver?
Sometimes the fees are paid for by mummy, or two mummies, or even grannie, or also by companies employing the parents. If you remove the daddy payers, there are plenty of others who will enter the sector and so on.
What I'm trying to say is that things won't change. There will always be a demand.

Jaylou Wed 24-Aug-22 08:44:04

Calendargirl

volver

Oops, forgot something.

I an astounded that any child going to state school might be accused of depriving another of a place. Where on earth does that come from? confused

If the state school is over subscribed, then some children can’t get ‘in’ there, and have to go elsewhere.

So the 3 Cambridge children are probably helping local children get in the state school of their choice perhaps?

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Thanks Calendargirl for expanding my post to explain it, didn't realise it would result in such a reaction.

I used to be an admissions officer at a heavily over-subscribed school. It really was a very emotive subject. As soon as a place came up mid-year and it was offered it was accepted so quickly by the next person on the waiting list.

I had one parent ring me up asking about the admissions process, after explaining it I asked how old their child was, to which they replied "they haven't been born yet"! This is how competitive getting a place can be. So one less pupil from a local family will provide a place for a very happy family.

Galaxy Wed 24-Aug-22 08:45:12

Yes that's not a good system either in my view.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 24-Aug-22 08:47:54

I didn’t have a private education. Nor did my son. I’m sure we would both have liked the advantages it undoubtedly gives. However it also seemed to give some people I worked with a rather unpleasant sense of superiority and entitlement.

I have nothing against choice but I greatly dislike the sense of superiority and entitlement. Of course by no means all fee-paying schools foster that, but some certainly do.

In the case of the Cambridge children I expect the need for tight security features heavily in the suitability of available schools. They are obvious targets and a state school wouldn’t be sufficiently safe.

Yammy Wed 24-Aug-22 08:56:22

GrannySomerset

Can you imagine how impossible security would be in most state schools? The physical safety of the children must have been a major factor in the decision.

I think you might have something there. I worked next to a school where the children of very wealthy parents went. A member of staff said it was like working in a prison. The family paid for security and extra fences etc. The children did not have a normal school life where security is pretty tight these days, and that went for all the other children in the school as well.
It would give them a chance of mixing with children from normal backgrounds but not knowing Windsor and its environs, wouldn't they be in a well-off catchment anyway?

CoolCoco Wed 24-Aug-22 08:58:08

I don't know why a state school couldn't be made as "safe" as a private one, presumably security could be employed, I'm guessing the taxpayer funds the royals bodyguards etc. Tony Blair's, and I believe Cameron and Gove's kid went to state schools in Westminster.

TerriBull Wed 24-Aug-22 08:59:03

We were recently having a discussion about the pros and cons of state versus private education with my son (state) and his girlfriend (public school) From their many retrospective observations my son pointed out that, his senior school, in spite of being a well regarded comprehensive, his recollection was always an inordinate amount of teaching time lost to low level disruption, something that didn't crop up during his partner's school life.

Sago Wed 24-Aug-22 09:00:11

Volver FYI there are 33 (STABIS) state boarding schools in the UK providing boarding accommodation for many ex pats.

Yammy Wed 24-Aug-22 09:04:42

CoolCoco

I don't know why a state school couldn't be made as "safe" as a private one, presumably security could be employed, I'm guessing the taxpayer funds the royals bodyguards etc. Tony Blair's, and I believe Cameron and Gove's kid went to state schools in Westminster.

Went to school in Westminster!!! not the Scotswood Road area of N/C or any inner city school, or even your average primary school. It was still selective because of its catchment. Security is tight in normal schools but cannot be focused on three children unless there is extra funding.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 24-Aug-22 09:12:24

I can’t see how a state school could be made sufficiently secure for children in direct line of succession to the throne. Imagine the opportunities for a relative of another pupil, even dare I say a member of staff, who is intent on doing harm. We see terrorism emerging in some very unexpected places nowadays - people who nobody suspected of having been radicalised. The threat can’t be totally eradicated anywhere but protection is far more easily achieved in a smaller private school.

Galaxy Wed 24-Aug-22 09:12:31

Yet Bridgewater in Scotswood is one of the best schools I have experienced in my professional capacity smile

Anniebach Wed 24-Aug-22 09:18:02

If the Cambridge children went to a state school quite possibly
their behaviour etc would be written of in the press

Joseanne Wed 24-Aug-22 09:26:20

Security for the Cambridges won't be paid from the education budget.

You start by having the grounds secured and highly sophisticated cctv on the entrance points. Not just to keep out terrorists and nutters, but to stop the devious press hacking into the equipnent and getting as much as a photo. In the building, all the rooms would obviously have to have panic buttons. Teachers would be equipped with bleepers. Yes, it's a huge expense but probably a drop in the ocean in the size of the national security budget.

I think the tricky task is to make security as unobtrusive as possible for the daily running of the school. Security detail will be invisible, but very present if that makes sense. It is necessary for the safety of everyone in the setting.