“We start school too early in the UK!”

One of my daughters was Montessori trained at the school she worked at post qualification. Sadly the inspirational head was forced out when it became an Academy..

I’d expect preschool from age 3 and good nursery or childminder provision post maternity leave

Casdon

Would lax parenting be more of an issue if school was not compulsory before the age of seven? I’d worry that some children would receive no education and would be even further behind their peers than they are now when they start school - unless nursery education was compulsory?

I think children from disadvantaged backgrounds will always be behind their peers in some ways. whatever age is chosen for the start of formal learning.
Hopefully Starmer's revival of the Sure Start equivalent might help the children who get a poorer start in life.

I agree with you Cossy and I would add time to learn life skills. My DGD is a teaching assistant in a reception class and some of them still need help to take their jumpers off when they are hot.

When I was 12 years old I learned about Japanese culture in school. One topic was education. I learned that in Japan, some children start school as early as age ONE - and some parents were saying that was already TOO LATE!!!

I had the best part of a year off school when I was 6/7.

One or two teachers came to see me and brought activities and books but I wasn’t well enough to do them, I could manage some reading and that was about all.

I somehow never fell behind and never had any extra tuition.

Would lax parenting be more of an issue if school was not compulsory before the age of seven? I’d worry that some children would receive no education and would be even further behind their peers than they are now when they start school - unless nursery education was compulsory?

Confidence - not coincidence!!

Two of mine spent some time in Steiner school. One was there from 9 to 14 because the state schools were failing her and destroying her coincidence. The other went up to age 7 when she went on to a good village school - she cherishes the wonderful times she had in kindergarten and nursery at the Steiner school. They filled her with confidence.

We used Montessori for one of our children, have nothing but praise for that system.

For another it was pre-prep, just what they needed.

Both thrived in their environments.

Nursery and Reception classes are learning through play, or at least the ones I have experience of are 🤷‍♀️

I have been banging on about this for years.

We stick these little ones in a formal learning setting far too young and then medicalise the problems that ensue.

Even very bright children for whom the academics are a doddle miss out on the joy of being a child.

Agree with you all absolutely.

Much prefer the Scandinavian model, plenty of outdoors activities, plenty of play, plenty of time to form friendships and build confidence.

Iam64

We start formal education too early. We don’t use play as a learning tool. We test them put them through exams to early and too often
No wonder anxiety is becoming frequent

Hear hear!

I absolutely agree. No problem with children entering kindergarten and nurseries early, childcare is required, many mothers work outside of the home.

Children need to learn through play and can do this until around 7 and formal education can start then.

We start formal education too early. We don’t use play as a learning tool. We test them put them through exams to early and too often
No wonder anxiety is becoming frequent