Thankyou to all those supporting me throughout my awful situation I find myself in. I've tried explaining my situation but some are just reading between the lines and not fully understanding. My husband has NEVER had a relationship with my d children, my gc. He has always stayed away, just his choice. So he has never been around my gc, visiting with me, birthdays, holidays, it's just his way, apart from xmas day. I am the only person that has ever visited my d at her home to see my gc. My husband has only had contact with my sons 11yr old d, my gd due to him playing a massive part in her life, supporting her through the bad times of when she lived with her mother and the abuse before my son gained custody of her. My son has always relied on mine and my husbands help so he could work. And when my gd was in our care it was myself that provided most of the support as my h worked nights, slept all day and on his days off spent time with my gd in my presence. My son people are forgetting was also present every night when tucking his daughter into bed. My h was going to work then, and my son even today will ask for our help collecting my 11yr old gd from school, allowing her to come for tea etc. Am I to understand that a grandfather spending precious time with their gc constitutes to them being an abuser?
My d has listened to her 11yr old son tell her that he and his cousin when they were both 6yrs old did rude things together. And with this my d came to the conclusion that my gd must've been shown what to do in order to re-enact things with her cousin therefore because of my h having extensive contact with my gd then he must be a peodophile. No mention of my gd having extensive contact with her own mothers boyfriends or the maternal gf or so many males in my gd life, no, she simply pointed her finger at my h, nobody else.
And fact that social workers and police have shut down all the complaints my d has made, spoken with my 11yr old gd and all concluding that NOTHING untoward has happened physically to my gd. So now my d has concluded that some big conspiracy has gone on to bury her complaint, that social workers have lied, u name it even down to her saying that I must have PAID off the original sw, cafcass and courts to ensure my son gained custody of my gd 6 yrs ago. This has raised red flags to me that there are certainly some serious mental issues going on with my d think process. As I do not have the clout and in no high rise position to pay off anybody such as our court system etc. And also my d has also accused her own brother of abusing my gd if not my h. Again unbelievable allegations, words fail me !!!