Actually there are a lot of things to lose. Some considerations:
1. Going to court is expensive for both sides. That's money your GC's parents won't have for other things. Depending on their income, that could be food coming out of the children's mouths.
2. There's significant stress involved. What impact will that have on your GC?
3. How will spending time with you on a schedule impact their life? Are there sports tournaments, camps, summer jobs, etc. they won't be able to do as they have to see you? What about holidays?
4. If you're unsuccessful in court, you have likely destroyed any future opportunity to get to see the children. Can you live with that?
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