Domestic Violence from kids to parents

rosecarmel, who are you accusing of being Nazi's?

This thread was set up to discuss violence from children to parents. Yes, threads move around, different topics are introduced.

My impression is that some posters are attempting to exclude others.

No rosecarmel every thread on the estrangement forum ends up being about EAC, how awful their parents are/were and how awful EPs must be, because they've been estranged.#

Unlike you, I don't find either scenario amusing.

My impression is that some posters are attempting to exclude others.

It could have developed into an interesting discussion, Iam64 but unfortunately has gone astray and posters have left, including the OP, perhaps they became bored.

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Thank you welbeck. It's very sad isn't it.

It's a shame isn't it Callistemon; boredom or frustration perhaps.

It does seem strange doesn't it Sparkling having estranged their abusive parents, got families of their own and made a good life for themselves.

I agree sparkling Sparkling
Small = minded
Adult = childish
Thread = repetitive

Callistemon

^My impression is that some posters are attempting to exclude others.^

It could have developed into an interesting discussion, Iam64 but unfortunately has gone astray and posters have left, including the OP, perhaps they became bored.

Correct Callistemon, in fact as far back as 11th October @ 22.28, I tried, for the first time, to get the discussion back to what the OP wanted to talk about. Several others have tried many times since but have been dissuaded. As so often happens, it's become another exclusionary discussion between just a few, with nothing to do with the subject matter.

And yes, you're spot on Sparkling and Iam64.

Because they are/were awful, Smileless- I don't find that fact the least bit amusing- What amuses me is that they think they were/are not-

Amusement wasn't my initial reaction- My initial reaction, as others, was trauma, which the denier/s never takes seriously either-

So ..

Hill-o-Beans ..

Is it appropriate to post a photo of women doing the Nazi salute? Who or what is that aimed at rosecarmel?

The thread didn't get derailed- The subject matter had become too uncomfortable to discuss- It happens-

Chewbacca

Is it appropriate to post a photo of women doing the Nazi salute? Who or what is that aimed at rosecarmel?

Am I expected to answer?

Why not rosecarmel. You posted it for a reason I assume.

Well isn't it polite to answer a question when asked?

Which reminds me, are you going to answer Agedp's question Starblaze?

The subject matter had become too uncomfortable to discuss- It happens-

The initial posters didn't appear to find it ^to uncomfortable to discuss^; they just got chased away.

Smileless I'm not sure there was any point in the question given the context previously mentioned and I can't see much point in answering because nothing I say is "good enough" anyway.

When I follow the discussion or try to keep it on track, I'm ignored and when I comment in general I must mean something awful because I'm an EAC.

So what's the point really

That's a good point Chewbacca. I think other posters, those who constantly go off topic are the ones finding it 'too uncomfortable to discuss'; I wonder why.

The question I seem to remember was straight forward enough Starblaze. You were asked if that particular post was about a poster on this thread. Was it or not?

"Well isn't it polite to answer a question when asked?"

Is it impolite not to? ?

That's not the impression I got a couple/few pages back when someone refused to respond to a question but is now expecting their question answered -- funny that!

I think it was a reasonable question Starblaze, as your post didn’t seem to bear any relation to the thread. So what’s the answer?

I posted an image of the elephant in the room- It was removed- So prattle on all you want about "who" is uncomfortable-

When I follow the discussion or try to keep it on track, I'm ignored

That's an interesting comment because I've just taken the time to read back over the whole of this thread and I can see that 7 requests have been made, by various posters, between 11th October and today, asking if the discussion could back on topic. And none of them were you Starblaze.

Are you in that picture, then, rosecarmel?

I thought you'd be younger than that.

Smileless -- It usually happens when someone says something very unhealthy like calling an infant a "small object" and then insists that anyone who sees 'that' as an issue must be the one with the problem. I disagree.

That's where I see derailments occurring.

Agedp the only person in my life I can be sure is a narcissist is the one who caused my narcissistic abuse related trauma.

If anyone else is worried that they could be a narcissist I would suggest they take a moment to think about themselves....

If they are still reading this comment then hopefully they are ok

Abuse victim humour.