Im new here, and sadly have been etranged by my Daughter for over 18 months now.
We were very close, even lived a few doors apart for a few years, and I looked after my grandchildren on a regular basis.
My Daughters marriage was not good, due mainly to her bullying husband and in laws, sadly we all walked on eggshells with her and let her get away with it all.
Her marriage broke down and we helped her rehouse nd rebuild her life, and all was still well,
She started a new relationship with a man who did not believe in family and was estranged from his own parents. We were never allowed to meet him, and she gradually tated to withdraw from us and ignoring all messages and phonecalls, and would not discuss the brewing situation. She ignored us when she saw us in town etc, so painful to go through we moved a distance away to avoid bumpng into her in the high street.
Long story short, we are cut out from her life and my randchildren totally, despite my efforts, all messages and call ignored, despite begging, apologising for any unknown trangression and pleading.
heard from her lovely exhusband that she and children moved in with this man and she sold her houe. sx month later she had to flee house with children due to escalating tensions.
she was now homelaess and girl with thier Father.
She still refuses to reconcile, and wnt give me an address to send things to granchildren, so ex husband has agreed I can send things to him address for them.
This has caused such rage to both him and from her, but it as the only way to keep contact with grandchildren.
I am seriously thinking of seeing a solicitor to try and get access to grandchildren, her ex husband feels for me, but i too frightened to let me see them on his watch, in case of what she will do.
Sorry thi is so long for first post, but I just don't know what to do,
I have been through so much heartbreak and tears at thi estrangement, and I truly believe i have done nothing wrong, think she may have some personality disorder, because the level of nastyness is unreal.
has anyone else tried the legal route? all emails, letters nd phone calls go unanswered despite y trying.
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