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Estrangement

Arrested

(54 Posts)
Tinytotx2 Mon 14-Nov-22 08:30:54

I haven't Been a member that long. I think you may have me mixed up with someone else but thankyou so much for your input

Allsorts Mon 14-Nov-22 07:53:05

Step back. Do not contact them. I'm afraid I can't see how you were arrested for posting a birthday card, that would be ridiculous. That's harrassment.

notgran Mon 14-Nov-22 07:53:03

I have been looking at your posts from 2016. If these are the same family members who you mentioned in those posts then it is a long standing problem. If now the Police are involved you have to step back and just look after yourself. Here on Gransnet you can't expect answers to this long standing issue just advice for you to take or not to help you get on with your life. You say you are disabled (in 2016 post) so that is even more reason to just concentrate on you and your health both physical and mental.

Tinytotx2 Mon 14-Nov-22 06:55:22

My son and his wife stopped all contact from me. But welcomed other members of my family even some of my friends who have also cut me off since befriending my son and dil
I took advice and sent my grandchildren birthday cards etc but they sent out a warrant out for my arrest for sending birthday cards . I was devastated I've never been in a police station, let alone ever broken the law.
So now I'm at a loss what to do what if my grandchildren are missing me and asking if they can see me? What if they are as upset as I am about not seeing them?. You'll all be wondering what I've done to cause this....well hopefully you will believe me when I say I do not know!
I baby sat, looked after them while my son and dil worked etc, took the children on outings . I did what grandparents do . My son and dil never said I was doing anything wrong or anything
they wouldnt do
Does anyone have any ideas how to get to solve this mess please. I miss them so much ?