Mothers Day

💐❤️ for you all.

Thank you M.

I'm so sorry that you are also living the constant pain of estrangement. It's a terrible thing to lose your AC and you are not alone to have had this happen due to the coercive control of a partner; this happened to us too more than 10 years ago.

I don't think you ever come to terms with it, you just learn to live with it and make the most of what life has to offer .

I had a text from my son this morning which said 'why don't you die. The sooner you are dead the better as nobody will miss you'. This is not the first time I have received a message like this. I can't get to see my grandchildren. I am broken inside.

Littleannie sending hugs xx
That's so horrible but it's really about him you know. He's not in a good place.
Try not to let it break you.

Oh Littleannie that's the worse thing I have ever read on this forum. You need to block him from any means of contacting you.

Monstrous and inexcusable behaviour.

Oh my gosh, I feel so sorry to hear that. I have a son who I think feels the same.
He hasn’t bothered to text at all. We are not estranged but I think that this will come.
I feel that a veil is lifting from my eyes regarding his treatment of both me and his dad over the years,
Please try not to let it get to you. That is a mean and unnecessary text to send especially on Mothers Day. I hope that you find some peace today xxx

So sorry for those estranged from children and grandchildren

Incidentally, when did we stop using Mothering Sunday and start the dreaded Americanism, Mothers Day?

Well I’m 62 and when I was a infant school aged 5,6 and 7 and we did the homemade cards (still got one) I’m fairly sure it was referred to as Mothers Day then🤔

At least it is still on a Sunday😊

Littleannie, I cannot say how sorry I am for you to to receive a message like that from your own son. He must be mentally ill.
You must know you don’t deserve it. Perhaps time to consider blocking him.

Littleannie my heartfelt sympathy 🫂 goes to you this morning.
You are still here, so don’t waste any more tears on him.💐

MBM thank you for your message, I identify for your broken heart. You must know its not about you, it’s him wanting control as he’s so inadequate, your daughter needs to see that it’s wrong and until then there’s nothing you can do. Look after yourselves.

Thank you MBM
My feelings are similar to yours.
Littleannie❤
🌹for all of us who loved and did our best for our children.

So sorry for you little Annie I would try and forget him he is a very mixed-up person who at the moment enjoys hurting people.
I hope for you and all estranged Gransnetters, their children see what their mothers have done for them.

Sending kind thoughts to all who are estranged from their families

Littleannie, that message is really cruel you need to block him x

That is so hard MBM I can't imagine how you must feel today,I hope you find some peace of mind, things can change so don't lose hope.

Littleannie I'm so sorry you had such an awful message, I agree with Gramaretto it's about him not you. Sending love & hugs.

I posted a reply but for some reason it's not worked.
Thank you all for your kind comments. I have had abuse from him since he was 18, he's 54 now. He has had custody of the children since his partner died 5 years. The only reason I don't block him is in case the children need me.

MBM
I'm so sorry, I know what you are going through. Take comfort in the love of your husband and other family members.
As my sister said to me, one day when the grandchildren are older they may decide to contact you themselves.

Little annie, how awful. Block him and put an end to his nonsense. 💐

Little Annie , I'm so sorry. It must be awful. Hard as it will be I would block his number.