I was blessed with a son and a daughter that I love and adore. I haven't seen my son for 7 years, ever since he met this girl online while he was in college. My son was a genius, and I was so proud of him making it into a good college but I didn't know that him going there would result in our estrangement. In his first year he met some girl online playing video games and claimed he loved her. He wanted to travel to meet her and ignored my warnings that he shouldn't get involved. She seemed like she was a nice girl, studying to become a lawyer, seemed very smart and nice. But I had a bad feeling about her, especially when he mentioned her parents were divorced and she didn't talk to her father at all. He said it was due to him cheating but that's between the parents and kids shouldn't get involved or cut parents off for something like that. Love between parents and love between a parent and child are separate.
But he went to her anyways despite my best efforts and when he came back everything started to change. He started to lash out at me, accuse me of things that he had never mentioned before and after a while he left my home and never came back. I tried to get in contact with him, but he blocked me. He said she opened his eyes and that I should leave him alone. He'd talk with his sister and father until he found out they were telling me how he was doing and then he cut them off too. Lord forbid I care about him. He threatened to go to the police when I tried to beg him for a chance to talk. They moved away suddenly and I had to use one of those search services to find where he went and make sure he's safe. I don't trust that girl he's with. I'm sure all of this came from her, all the accusations. They even called me a criminal! Maybe all that studying law has her paranoid lol. I miss him so much and want him to come home. Part of me still holds out hope. I message him every day to tell him I love him even though he blocked me. Maybe one day he'll come to his senses and come back. How does anyone deal with the pain, and the knowledge that an outsider to your family ruined everything?
Shall we reboot our cartoons thread again? 😁
Cross partyAsylum seekers in UK should have right to work after six months!