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Ageism in hospital letter

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B9exchange Tue 13-Jan-26 14:07:16

DH was sent for a Dexa scan yesterday, he is 80. It assessed his risk of a hip fracture as only 6.9%, I think that is amazing for his age. Since the treatment doesn't really have any effect on bone density for 1 - 2 years and has side effects, I don't think we will be wanting to start that, whatever our young and very enthusiastic GP suggests!

WelshPoppy Tue 13-Jan-26 14:04:49

Some people will pick holes in anything.

Fallingstar Mon 12-Jan-26 12:28:00

When my DH went to a day assessment unit after having a stroke the letter sent to our GP later described the assessment unit as geriatric care. It is just a medical term.
Condescending attitudes are another thing altogether.

Witzend Mon 12-Jan-26 12:20:40

Witzend

avitorl

Could it possibly have meant you are too young to suspect it?

That’s how I read it.

Although it’s certainly not unknown in younger women. Didn’t I once read that Gwyneth Paltrow was diagnosed with a pretty bad case some years ago?
Probably down to some fad, supposedly ‘healthy’ diet, but IIRC it’s also associated with certain anti-cancer drugs, IIRC tamoxifen is one such.

Witzend Mon 12-Jan-26 12:17:33

avitorl

Could it possibly have meant you are too young to suspect it?

That’s how I read it.

Sadgrandma Mon 12-Jan-26 12:05:33

foxie48

That makes sense thank you

foxie48 Mon 12-Jan-26 11:58:08

"For others, particularly older people over the age of 75, the risk of breaking a bone may be so high that there's no need for them to have a bone density scan before treatment is prescribed" taken from the NHS guidance on DEXA.

www.nhs.uk/tests-and-treatments/dexa-scan/why-its-done/

Oreo Mon 12-Jan-26 11:51:28

80 is old tho, and whatever’s wrong in owning that?

Sadgrandma Mon 12-Jan-26 08:41:00

Basgetti

avitorl
Could it possibly have meant you are too young to suspect it?
Well, this.
Suggests to me that your clinician thinks you are possibly on the young side for the condition.
See no ageism there.
Hope all turns out well.

I am 80 so doubt they think I’m too young.
I read it that she was saying ‘ Although she is 80’, meaning normally we wouldn’t bother!
She’s lovely otherwise so I expect it was a little slip up so won’t take offence.

OldFrill Mon 12-Jan-26 01:12:41

Depending on age NICE guidelines re osteoporosis suggest treatment can be started without confirmation of diagnosis. Your doctor is indicating that he's varying the guideline and wants confirmation by scanning even though at your age that's not strictly necessary. He 's justifying varying the guideline to whoever he's writing to so they don't question your referral.

Graphite Mon 12-Jan-26 00:46:59

Elsewhere you wrote that you are 80. Anything between 40% and 70% of women that age will have osteoporosis.

Taking common medications such as corticosteroids for inflammation, proton pump inhibitors for reflux, SSRIs for depression or will increase the risk.

“Despite” suggests an assumption it will be be present but whatever words are used it seems sensible to check to see a) if it is present and b) the severity.

Basgetti Mon 12-Jan-26 00:27:22

avitorl

Could it possibly have meant you are too young to suspect it?

Well, this.
Suggests to me that your clinician thinks you are possibly on the young side for the condition.
See no ageism there.
Hope all turns out well.

avitorl Sun 11-Jan-26 23:33:29

Could it possibly have meant you are too young to suspect it?

RosiesMawagain Sun 11-Jan-26 23:33:21

I think it should read
“In view of her age, I think it would be wise…..” etc

Sadgrandma Sun 11-Jan-26 23:28:34

I have just received a copy of a hospital letter sent to my GP. One sentence reads ‘ Despite her age I think it would be wise to arrange a scan to check for osteoporosis‘ . I was quite shocked by the ‘despite her age bit’!