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food for 80-90 yr olds

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TriciaF Fri 09-Sept-16 18:07:03

I'm trying to think of a gift, of food, for an old lady of 80 to 90. Any ideas? Sweet or savoury.
For a younger person I would make a cake, or my special couscous salad. But I think those would be too heavy.
Her husband aged 92 has just died.

Ana Fri 09-Sept-16 18:18:25

Fairy cakes, or similar? So that she isn't over-faced?

grannylyn65 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:18:42

The 89 year old couple i look after love cake and chocolate. xx

Riverwalk Fri 09-Sept-16 18:22:38

Oh, dear Tricia if I didn't recognise your name as a regular would suspect you were taking the p*ss!

Ana Fri 09-Sept-16 18:31:52

Why? confused

TriciaF Fri 09-Sept-16 18:33:46

No I'm not taking the p*ss, but I don't think she'll be fancying heavy food at the moment - perhaps I'm wrong?
She's a tiny skinny little thing.
So if she'll like cake, I'll do that.
Having said that, just had a major flop with a cake I made yesterday.blush

grannylyn65 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:35:30

Cous Cous ?

tanith Fri 09-Sept-16 18:37:48

Could you make her up a small hamper of nice jams, flavoured teas if she likes them, small bags of posh chocolates/fudges, a variety of small home baked cakes/tarts so that she has lots of treats but nothing is overwhelming or too much.

aggie Fri 09-Sept-16 18:38:40

Fairy cakes sounds good , small enough for a bite or two , and not a cake to be cut up . What about a tasty soup ? In portion sized containers ?

grannylyn65 Fri 09-Sept-16 18:48:24

Cake !!!grin

merlotgran Fri 09-Sept-16 18:56:41

My mum used to love small brioche rolls for breakfast. They're light and easily digested. Maybe a jar of shredless marmalade to go with them?

jogginggirl Fri 09-Sept-16 19:20:20

My mum, who is 89 loves a fairy cake, a chocolate eclair, an egg custard, a sausage roll or toffee eclair - one at a time though..grin I have definitely noticed a preference for sweet over savoury in recent years ....wink

Riverwalk Fri 09-Sept-16 19:22:34

Judi Dench and Joan Bakewell are in their 80s - does anyone think a cake or couscous would be too heavy for them, or they would need something easily digested?

merlotgran Fri 09-Sept-16 19:27:47

You don't know what they eat though, Riverwalk and they're both in their early eighties.

Riverwalk Fri 09-Sept-16 19:32:39

No I don't Merlot but I doubt they have trouble with cake & couscous!

aggie Fri 09-Sept-16 19:33:54

This lady is recently bereaved and we are told she is tiny , so probably frail with a small appetite . She isn't being provided with a meal , just small treats to tempt her and reassure her that someone is thinking of her

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 09-Sept-16 19:34:25

In five years time I think I will welcome shop cake. A vanilla madeira with buttercream and soft white icing. I will eat it until I felt really sick and then I would have a sleep.

Roll on.

phoenix Fri 09-Sept-16 19:39:13

jings grin

Linsco56 Fri 09-Sept-16 19:42:49

My mum is 86 and loves cakes but she chokes on anything too dry and flakey such as a Danish pastry. She would live on ice cream if I let her.

So, something sweet and moist ?

Riverwalk Fri 09-Sept-16 19:44:45

jings aren't you supposed to be keeping a low profile, under the radar sort of thing ...... in the meantime you should eat cake, and couscous!

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 09-Sept-16 19:45:12

Always something to look forward to phoenix. grin

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 09-Sept-16 19:46:25

Too late for that I think Riverwalk.

Oh please not couscous!!! [gag]

Riverwalk Fri 09-Sept-16 19:52:38

Couscous is fab - for skinny cows certain people.

My first loyalties on GN is to the Low-carb thread, otherwise I would sent you some lovely cc recipes.

Jane10 Fri 09-Sept-16 21:08:19

Do people in that age group not appreciate a good fruit cake? A cut and come again cake like this in a nice tin could be a lovely treat.

M0nica Sat 10-Sept-16 19:05:23

DF at 92 still ate as normal. A bottle of sherry was always welcome and anything savoury. Do not assume that just because this gift is for a lady of advanced years that she necessarily has a sweet tooth.

Actually both DF and I loved a really rich fruit cake.