Aaah thank you all - think I will just go to the garden centre tomorrow and start again. I can deal with the slug problem ok with sand and gravel and have also been told that whitefly avoid anything yellow - like my lupins in blues and purples but will look for something low growing in yellow to pland under them.
How do I bring this issue up with our neighbours?
How do you hang your washing out?
Thought this might amuse some of you!

