Aaah thank you all - think I will just go to the garden centre tomorrow and start again. I can deal with the slug problem ok with sand and gravel and have also been told that whitefly avoid anything yellow - like my lupins in blues and purples but will look for something low growing in yellow to pland under them.
Things to plant in very shallow poor soil
Why do people lie online are they living a fantasy or winding us up?

