Couldn't you avoid handling the kitten once trapped, just open it in the room where you want him to be? It would be less stressful for him. You can then spend some time each day in that room, talking gently but not approaching him. Take in some knitting or a book, then he will get used to you in his own time.
Sorry if I am teaching a grandmother to suck eggs!
What would you do if this was your cat?
The Government advice re emergency packs
What household chore have you got completely wrong?
Were you more emotionally attached to one parent over the other ?





