This is how I used to feel too. Getting back to the begonia discussion, it was one of the things I could grow, along with crocosmia, geranium, iris, poppy and saxifraga, without the slugs killing it.
Today, I took a video of the bumbles in my garden and lost count of how many of them along with hover flies and butterflies there were.
I won't give up on strawberries because my GD who is only 3, planted them and is watching them go from green to red.
I do not want slugs and snails anymore, or rotting compost, but this is after many years of letting them do their thing. I feel guilty though.