I bought a garden ornament a few days ago. It is an old man smoking a pipe in an arm chair.
Dad was very against smoking.
Somebody asked me if it reminded me of my Dad.
I don't think it did.
Dad tended to want to be up doing something all of the time so he would probably be standing for say 30 minutes and then have a sit down for a few minutes and start again.
He was also a silver surfer and learnt how to do things like letters on the laptop although he noticed we were sending less and less letters due to e mail and the scanner.
He did some spread sheets.
Dad was a bit disabled towards the end of his life but he did his utmost to overcome his problems.
I don't think Dad really ever thought he was nearly 90.
Probably the fact he did not have to take any long term medication helped.
Frank
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.