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Remembering Greatnan - Carol Sheridan

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Gagagran Fri 24-Oct-14 11:30:39

I am sure many of us will be thinking of Carol this weekend. It will be a year since she was found and the long search for her came to such a sad end. I hope her family have come to terms with their loss and will be pleased to know that she has not been forgotten here on GN.

Greenfinch Mon 27-Oct-14 08:28:54

Thank you for this Marmight. Something positive to reflect on on a Monday morning and so typical of Greatnan

Marmight Mon 27-Oct-14 08:15:49

While looking for something else, I came upon this post which Carol greatnan wrote in November 2011. I think it sums up her exuberance and her complete delight in the outdoors. I hope she was feeling just like this when she went on her final walk :

"My daughter lives in Wakefield, a village about 12 miles from the North coast of South Island - the nearest towns are Richmond and Nelson.

I had not run since childhood, but last January, in the lovely sunshine in NZ, I just suddenly felt the urge to jog round the garden - the family were amazed. However, I found it a bit hard on the knees, so I went back to walking. I find sprinting flat out is actually easier on the knees!

I am acutely aware of how lucky I am to enjoy good health (other than slightly high blood pressure, meaning I have to take Ramipril, and a bit of arthritis in the knees). My main reason for wanting to lose weight was not cosmetic (I really don't care about my appearance) but to stay as healthy as possible so I can continue to live alone in this isolated and beautiful spot.

I know what you mean about feeling smug but my principal feeling when I am walking is just sheer happiness. Today, the sun was shining and I explored some new villages then walked by a stream in a forest.

I have talked about my concern that I was getting too obsessive about walking, but today I got back to my car after 1hr 55 mins and did not feel the need to walk round for another five mintues to make up the two hours, as I have in the past. Small steps!"

glammanana Sat 25-Oct-14 16:29:01

Greatly missed Carol flowers one of a kind indeed.

vegasmags Sat 25-Oct-14 09:55:56

What I appreciated about her was her honesty and lack of ego. She would write quite frankly about her own life and the mistakes she had made, but would always offer support and practical advice to those trying to implement change in their own lives. She was a real inspiration to me when, after a spell in the doldrums, I was trying hard to improve my physical fitness. I miss her.

annodomini Fri 24-Oct-14 21:56:47

That was a lovely thought, durhamjen. I know she would have been very touched.

durhamjen Fri 24-Oct-14 20:55:31

I bought a tree in her name in a Woodland Trust wood, as she always seemed one with nature to me. Hard to believe it's a year ago.

tiggypiro Fri 24-Oct-14 20:29:06

Her sense of adventure was inspiring and is missed. flowers

moomin Fri 24-Oct-14 19:30:27

Greatnan flowers

yogagran Fri 24-Oct-14 18:32:39

Can't believe that it's a year ago, seems much more recent. I miss her feistiness too

tanith Fri 24-Oct-14 18:32:28

Thats a lovely post Purpledaffodil its nice to know you came here via Greatnan.

Purpledaffodil Fri 24-Oct-14 18:26:50

I actually came to Gransnet through Greatgran. There was so much publicity when she disappeared and a lot about Gransnet too. Curious, I came to have a look and stayed. When her posts come up on old and revived threads, I always thank her silently, she sounded such a wise woman. flowers

merlotgran Fri 24-Oct-14 18:26:33

It's much quieter without her and I think she'd like that too.

janerowena Fri 24-Oct-14 18:20:58

I miss her. She was a wise old bird.

whenim64 Fri 24-Oct-14 18:06:36

I spent a lovely (sometimes hair-raising) week with Carol last year and remember her as kind and generous with the most wicked sense of humour. She showed me 'her' mountains in the French Alps and we had a great time, celebrating her birthday, driving to see medieval villages, beautiful lakes and stunning vistas across the mountain ranges, then looking in on Gransnet when we got back to her apartment to see what was being said. She'd be happy that we all remember her so fondly.

janeainsworth Fri 24-Oct-14 17:32:17

Thank you for remembering Gaga.
I never met Carol, but miss her on Gransnet.
It will be a specially hard week for her family.

Faye Fri 24-Oct-14 17:17:53

She certainly lived her life to the fullest and went doing what she loved. flowers

nightowl Fri 24-Oct-14 17:10:18

I miss her kindness, as well as her feistiness. She could certainly argue her point, but it was her kindness that always came through in the end. I wish I had been able to meet her as some of you did.

tanith Fri 24-Oct-14 16:55:13

I enjoyed reading her witty and informative posts , Greatnan was a very spirited lady and I also miss her posts...
In my thoughts Greatnan .

Lilygran Fri 24-Oct-14 16:47:34

I miss her style and jokes. And arguing with her. I can't believe it's a year!

absentgrandma Fri 24-Oct-14 14:40:52

I 'knew' Greatnan through another forum. She was a fiesty poster on that one, and could well hold her own with some of the blokey types who thought they knew it allwink.

I remember reading the news of her disappearance vividly . It was half term and my DD.SIL and GS were here on holiday when one evening I read a headline in the Mail on line. 'OMG' I said,'That's Carol.' I then had to explain how I knew her, which I think my OH and SIL thought slightly odd...as men do .

In hindsight her 'signature' was so appropriate....... something like....'I will be a long time in the grave, for now I want adventure'. I admired her independant spirit so much and often wish I had it.

NfkDumpling Fri 24-Oct-14 14:18:01

Strange, i read a post the other day - can't remember about what - but I found myself thinking 'That's just what Greatnan would have said'.
Miss her.

kittylester Fri 24-Oct-14 14:09:36

Gransnet is a poorer place without GN flowers

annodomini Fri 24-Oct-14 14:09:24

She's been in my thoughts this week. She was last seen the Sunday the clocks changed and it was ten days until she was found. Those were terrible days. I'm grateful for having had Carol as a friend and treasure the times I spent with her in 'her' Alps.

TerriBull Fri 24-Oct-14 14:00:00

I like to think she is having a great time in the after life, but tinged with "oh rats I was wrong after all it didn't all end down there on planet earth"

Who knows though she could be right about that as well!

baubles Fri 24-Oct-14 13:57:17

Greatnan is very much missed flowers