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What stories did your grandparents tell you?

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Ravs Wed 11-Nov-26 19:20:51

Hello all, I'm Ravi and new here.

Some of my happiest memories are sitting with my grandparents, listening to them talk about how they grew up, the things they lived through and the things they saw. My grandmother also made up the most wonderful stories, and I still remember some of them now. These days I love hearing my mum talk about her own childhood too.

It made me wonder how many of those stories never get passed on.

So I'd love to hear yours. What stories did your grandparents or parents tell you, and which ones are you sharing with your own grandchildren?

And I'd love to hear about your own life too. The experiences that made you who you are, and the wisdom you've picked up along the way about relationships, money, mistakes, and the tough times that made you stronger.

If you could send one message back to your 20 year old self, what would it say?

Oldnproud Wed 11-Nov-26 20:03:41

I spent quite a lot of time with my maternal grandma, but she didn't tell me anything at all about her life, and I wasn't the sort of child who would ask. Nowadays, I really kick myself for not being more inquisitive.
In recent years, my mum has told me lots though, about both her own childhood and my grandma's younger years, but apart from the 'secret' (involving an illigitimacy) that my brother and had both worked out anyway as young children, there was nothing of any great interest.

Despite seeing my paternal grandparents once a month when I was growing up (well, grandad, as grandma had died many years earlier), I knew nothing about them either. I dont remember any real interaction with them, apart from us all playing cards together after Sunday tea when I was in my teens. Their past was a mystery to me.

Fortunately, in the last few years before he died, my dad set about writing down the everything he could remember about his life, although we were not to read it until after his death. Some of it was mundane, but most of it was fascinating.

Thanks to that, I have loads of stories relating to three generations of that side of the family, including his Scottish dad, his Irish mother, and what led to them ending up in Yorkshire. There are hundreds of fascinating /sad /funny / frightening stories.
Only one or two of the recollections had been mentioned when I was growing up, so I am absolutely delighted that Dad shared them with us eventually - even the ones that have shocked me a little bit. 😊

Jaxjacky Wed 11-Nov-26 20:47:54

Fishing?

petra Wed 11-Nov-26 20:54:42

Jaxjacky

Fishing?

Exactly!!!!
More fodder for the DATA bank.

MawlovesRosie Wed 11-Nov-26 21:18:17

Defo 🎣🎣🎣🎣🎣

Deedaa Wed 11-Nov-26 21:45:48

My grandparents didn't tell me any stories, although my grandfather did sometimes to drawings for me. It's very annoying now because they seem to have had quite interesting histories and their are huge gaps in what I know now.