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Do you look after babies during the night?

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GrandmaRoo Sat 10-Mar-12 16:21:51

I stay with my DD and SIL for part of the week, and have always offered to do night feeds for at least one of the nights. My lovely grandaughter (9 weeks) totally refused to breastfeed, but is thriving on Mummy's expressed milk via a bottle, so I can do this for them. I remember how hard those early weeks were when my babies were little, and my Mum was 200 miles away - I would have just loved a whole night's sleep! Last week a good friend of mine came to stay too, and we sent the young couple out for dinner, then back for a good night's sleep while we enjoyed ourselves doing everything from evening bath through to morning bath. DGD was very well behaved and went back to sleep nice and quickly after feeds and changes.

However, when I told my sister this, she was horrified. She is Grandma to 4, and says she draws the line at night-shifts (which I can well understand as she has 4 but I only have 1!)

What do you all think? I have to say I just enjoy having her all to myself for those few hours...

harrigran Wed 28-Mar-12 12:02:55

redblue it is an honour to be asked and trusted to care for the precious little ones. The day after may have to be a rest day for granny to recuperate but that's okay.

bikergran Wed 28-Mar-12 21:09:10

I think whatever is thrown (well not thrown lol you know! I mean throwing the baby lol) we just accept it and get on with it..we don't really think about it do we! we just do it smile

granbunny Sun 01-Apr-12 20:41:58

i find it an honour, too. thinking that my daughter trusts me with her baby is the greatest honour i can imagine.