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Passing down family name

(133 Posts)
aggie Tue 02-May-17 17:47:30

I had three cousins with the same name , all at the same school !! tooooo confusing

aggie Tue 02-May-17 17:45:32

we decided on very different from family names and had family names as second names , everyone was very cross , but 50 years later they have got over it . Sometimes it gets strange , Big John , wee John , Johnny , till no one knows who they are talking about , love the baby , be glad for a lovely grandson and DO NOT cause a rift

nanaK54 Tue 02-May-17 17:43:05

Congratulations on the new arrival
Hmmm - the parents get to choose the name and presumably did not want to continue with tradition - seems fair enough to me smile
Just enjoy the precious new addition to your family and please don't express your disappointment......

Anniebach Tue 02-May-17 17:42:50

My elder daughter has seventh generation name , when she had her first daughter they chose not to give the baby the name but did choose it as a second name , I call elder granddaughter both names, not a thing we can do but accept the parents choice

Ana Tue 02-May-17 17:42:46

Perhaps it's time to let that tradition go - young people these days have their own ideas.

kittylester Tue 02-May-17 17:41:03

We have a boys name on both sides which we gave to DS2 when it became obvious that no-one else was likely to. DD3 got lumbered as she sees it with the really old fashions family girls name.

By definition a handed down name is old fashioned so the child might thank them. Ours would have done!

Ilovecheese Tue 02-May-17 17:38:19

You have had your turn at choosing names. Time to let go. Just be thankful to have the child. "a rose by any other name..etc."
Do you also have a tradition for girls' names? or is it just for the boys.

NewGM Tue 02-May-17 17:33:26

Traditional name, handed down for over 5 generations- over- Son named is first born a name of wife's choosing - can't help feeling of disappointment. Husband is so hurt. How do we deal? I know there is nothing we can do, but it just seems wrong. Everyone just assumed name would be after father/grandfather/great grand etc, feeling almost embarrassed - has anyone else every dealt with this issue?