I don't know if I could do it ( childcare ) for more than a few hours at 70!
It may just mainly have to be whole family visits by then and I plan to retire by the sea so they can come up for the day and we can all have fun on the beach etc
I think by then I may have deserved a rest anyway
My Grandson who is 10 ( who lives with me ) comes home from school in various moods but mainly with loads of stuff to process and if something has gone wrong , even a 'small' thing as he is sensitive then it affects his behaviour from the minute he walks through the door and I usually have to diffuse it as if I make any fuss over him or even offer any comfort due to him being upset he actually gets worse and more worked up , so it's just about him chilling out , destressing from his day , music helps him a lot as it really relaxes him and he enjoys his music so much , plus watching silly clips on Youtube which make him lol which is very destressing in itself ( laughter ) and then when he is ready for kisses and cuddles and tickles etc then I go for it! lol
He has the battle of the bedtime down to a T though so that can vary in how difficult it is but we usually get there with the promise of his upcoming rewards and treats
He has a lot going on emotionally so I just gotta be that therapeutic haven for him to destress and heal so I get the brunt of everything pretty much as have been told he is an angel at school and he saves any angst / upset / grumpy tiredness for when he gets home and then he can / does let loose! LOL
We weather the storms but I have ended up in tears before but to me it shows him that Nanny is human and has feelings of her own just like he does so we are pretty real around each other and getting through the carp seems to bring us closer in the end as he is secure enough to show ALL of himself / how he is feeling etc to me and I aint going anywhere
I am in my 50's btw and still find it exhausting!!! I have a chest infection right now , am run down and on antibiotics as now have a tooth extraction to be done tomorrow as it is highly infected and painful too so on top of everything else it is going to be a tough few days as he breaks up from school tomorrow and no one in the family can have him for even one night over the weekend for me to recuperate from the extraction and from being run down so it will be an almost ''do what you like'' weekend tbh with TV on , Ipad on , toys out , back door open to access the garden and play , chill out with Nanny on the bed if he wants to or happens to be in the mood for a snuggle lol
When I stayed at my Granddads house who I adored he did not 'entertain' me at all ... I just sort of did my own thing , mainly hunting for caterpillars etc in his garden , smelling his sweet peas which were divine , squeezing leaves and smelling them ( I was into the smells of nature btw lol ) and watching some TV or reading if I wanted to but the days always flew by for me and I simply loved being there and having him around , it was a home I was happy in basically so he did not have to do much with me , he just pottered around doing his own thing too and I just loved the fact that I was there xx
I miss my lovely Granddad who is in that better place now! x
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