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Does he have autism?

(29 Posts)
RedheadedMommy Wed 30-Aug-17 17:37:53

Don't say anything.
The parents might already have an idea but just not discussed it with you? The school will pick it up if there is anything.

NanaSunshine01 Wed 30-Aug-17 17:35:37

Thank you cherry. I'm a mass of nerves as I don't want to do the wrong thing. X

Cherrytree59 Wed 30-Aug-17 17:34:23

I agree a worry, but as he is going to a school nursery I would wait.
I'm sure that if he is on the spectrum then it will be picked up.
The nursery may receive extra funding for your DGC if extra help is required

NanaSunshine01 Wed 30-Aug-17 17:23:02

I need advice! My GS has just turned 3 and I've been concerned for some time that he may have autism as he is displaying several potential characteristics of the disorder. I have kept these thoughts to myself as I don't want to needlessly alarm his parents when they are already going through a difficult period in their lives.

However the more I read the more it's evident that early intervention is crucial to ensure he has support. I know the parents have no suspicions that he may be on the spectrum. He is started nursery in a primary school in a few weeks and I don't know whether to wait for the school to identify a problem (if indeed there is one) or speak to the parents myself. Which if I'm honest I'd rather not do as I don't want to upset them in any way. What would you advise?