Any advice is appreciated!DIL at a loss here!!

Same phrases:
butting heads
grandmother telling baby; mummy does nasty things to you....mummy naughty lady....
If it's not GNHQ, it's still the same person.

And who mentioned troll? Not me!

When we all respond questioning the school uniform threads, is that troll hunting? I've only been here a few months but even I recognise that one!
Why is hunting a troll bad? Shouldn't they be outed?
And now am I derailing?
Not yet quite got the etiquette of posting I'm afraid.

ps I didn't think it was GNHQ and wouldn't want to be accused of 'troll-hunting' but some OPs often sound very familiar - which could be an ongoing unsolved problem of course.

Oh dear, sorry Cari

Blue link doesn't work

no longer allowed to see son (119 Posts)

no longer allowed to see son (119 Posts)

Found it! sorry it is on 'Grandparenting' forum:

Mil no longer allowed to see son (119 Posts)

There were 7pages, so lots of posts, from posters on here.

That Oct thread has gone! I even put it in the search bar, nothing, & gone from my 'I'm on' Don't know if anyone else can find it.

Who are you bug ?? you seem to know and remember all the details of my story, even more than me If you are a grandmother, are you my grandsons?[ my granddaughters half brother]

Thank you Smileless Xx

Ok Madgran I have re-read, so thank you xx That Oct thread is on 'relationships', bit way down now, but can't be two people using exactly the same phrase;
Hi, I’m not a Gran, but a first time mum hoping you lovely ladies can offer some advice. I’ve chosen to post here instead of mumsnet Baby same age & same sort of story line, albeit a bit different, but if you were reading a book you would think same author!

I was giving my opinion Farnorth Anyway it looks like it was all a lie I know my post are in pink, dah! as I said no time or inclination

Jalima looks that way to me, on the Oct thread I put one post saying is this for real Same person writing the first thread to this one, think it's GNHQ admin. getting us going, and it worked. I was accused before of only staying on 'my page' so I ventured out, but I will def stay well clear in future.

Yogagirl, it would take very little time to check back on your posts, as they will be highlighted in pink.

To jog your memory, you said "I do not believe for one second that an adult relative that would love this baby, would allow a small child, cousin, to hold a new born baby & run round the house with it!"

So you were saying the OP lied. That was unkind.

And you are a very rude and uncaring one bugsy. Some lovely 'chat' has taken place between DILseekingadvice and Yogagirl. If you haven't read it I suggest you do, you might learn something.

Where is the VanillaSoyLatte post - which forum?

Yogagirl Please read my post again...I didn't say YOU were unkind, I was commenting on Bugsy's comments to you!!!

do you think we've been had Yogagirl?
(wouldn't be the first time)

Yoga you accuse everybody that you disagree with of being from mumsnet. I'm not and never have posted on that forum. You are a very paranoid lady.

Just found this, looks very familiar

VanillaSoyLatte Sun 08-Oct-17 17:34:22
Hi, I’m not a Gran, but a first time mum hoping you lovely ladies can offer some advice. I’ve chosen to post here instead of mumsnet as I’m hoping to avoid this turning into a huge anti mil thread.

This may be quite long so please bear with me......

By the way Bugsy is not a grandmother, she's from mumsnet.

Was I being unkind Madgran ? I would have to look back on all I wrote to establish if that is true, [no time or inclination] but I hope you are wrong, as I wouldn't want to be unkind to anyone. Having a difference of opinion & voicing that, is that unkind then? The OP did ask for: your honest (happy for brutal honesty) opinions on my situation

Morning Dilseeking
Thank you for your nice posts & I take on board that not all m.i.l will be nice, but not to put your GC health & safety before anything else is something I cannot understand!
I have tried that hangi, as I lived in Africa and they cooked like that too, yes delicious . I had many amazing adventures whilst living there and have some fantastic photos of my daughter, one with the Zulu tribal women, in all their tribal gear,[ which they wear every day], the women holding her, standing out in the bush, we just came across these women on a drive out one day. Another great pic of my D leaning out of our car and right behind her were two giraffe . So yes you really must visit your husbands homeland and get some good pics of your D too. Who would have thought we two, would end up having a pleasant chat on here Xx