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Any suggestions for a partly disabled grandma to provide activities for a 2 year old?

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Sulis Fri 15-Jun-18 06:55:25

Hi Everyone! I rather desperately need some suggestions as to what to do with my 2.5 year old grandaughter. She is very bright, quite a character, and needs me to provide some activities for her when she comes to me on Thursday and Friday every week. The problem is that I rarely go out - just to the supermarket once a fortnight to shop. I can barely walk, and although I would love to trot about with her, it is not an option. I fear she is very bored staying at home with me all the time, we do read, do a spot of gardening, watch a bit of tv (limited!!), and I talk/teach her some French, as her father, my son, is French. Any suggestions would be so very welcome. We live in Suffolk. Thank you very much for reading this. smile

NanaandGrampy Fri 15-Jun-18 19:43:39

You’ve had lots of great suggestions so I won’t add any , just to say I have limited mobility and I found as long as what I had planned could be done either sitting down or get her to do the running around. She’ll enjoy doing things with you that she doesn’t doanywhere else !

Have fun!!

Deedaa Fri 15-Jun-18 20:24:09

If you can find a cheap toy cooker and pots and pans you can get endless mileage out of them. My three are all boys between 11 and 5 years old and they will all still get mine out and play with it.

Feelingmyage55 Fri 15-Jun-18 20:40:36

Local library for extra books - if dad could do the book changing for you.
Looking after pot plants.
Singing and nursery rhymes.
Threading beads or buttons.
Home made play doh in lots of colours.
Dressing up clothes - your scarves, gloves and hats?
Playing at hairdresser - she will love doing your hair, some old rollers will add to the fun.
Listening to audio stories (library again).
Making paper shapes, aeroplane, bird, fortune teller.
Writing down stories and drawing pictures to do with them - yes even at 2 and a half.
Looking at photos.
Have fun.

Jalima1108 Fri 15-Jun-18 21:08:26

We made some lovely collages in the autumn from differently coloured autumn leaves - you can wander around the garden, the neighbourhood, picking up leaves, then having fun making pictures.

Elrel Fri 15-Jun-18 21:19:35

I expect you already sing together, in both English and French.
My GC have always enjoyed using puppets, glove puppets or just cuddly toys, to have conversations and re-tell favourite stories. Puppets can also be quite quickly made from wooden spoons, dish-mops and odd socks!
One of my GCs loved me making old fashioned strings of paper dolls for colouring, another got me involved in complicated acting out of stories with plastic farm and wild animals!
Anyway, enjoy!

SpringyChicken Fri 15-Jun-18 21:58:26

Our's adored "the tray game". Put five or six small objects on a tray - e.g thimble, spoon, cotton reel etc. Get her to look at it for a little while, then she turns around and you remove one item. She has to say what you have removed. Harder than it sounds for little ones.

Also do you know 'Two Little Dickie Birds"? With paper stuck on fingers and you make them fly away. You can see how it's done on YouTube. Choose the video by Pamela Sunshine. YouTube has lots of nursery rhymes with actions.

Giving dolly a bath.

Sorting a bag of buttons into colours or sizes (watch she doesn't put them in her mouth).

Sorting Granny's cotton reels.

Making paper lanterns

Tracing with greaseproof paper.

Making rice crispy cakes in bun cases.

SpringyChicken Fri 15-Jun-18 22:03:59

Clapping games are good - A sailor went to sea sea sea - YouTube again for inspiration and demonstration.

Teacheranne Fri 15-Jun-18 23:37:37

On a sunny day, take her in the garden and give her a large paint brush and a bucket of water to "paint" the fence, walls or patio. My kids spent hours doing that!

BlueBelle Sat 16-Jun-18 06:17:10

The other thing is at 2 plus kids love being useful so what to us are horrible chores can seem like a game to them, folding things, tidying the drawer with you , putting away she,ll love running around for you, if you ve got a timer that pings or an old egg timer you can time her she ll love the competition of it all, drying up ( not the knives or best glasses?) it won’t be work to her but an exciting game
You really don’t need much at that age

OldMeg Sat 16-Jun-18 07:07:15

If you can get her, and yourself, to a ‘Play and Stay’ group you might both benefit by getting out of the house. Many are run by church groups, but not all.

You can often grab a seat and talk to other adults while the children play together. Most of the ones I knew had a communal coming together for a few songs at the end and then a snack for the children and adults.

There were a couple of grannies with mobility issues and they coped well and had support from other adults.

Jalima1108 Sat 16-Jun-18 15:40:15

Wind the bobbin up
Wind the bobbin up
Pull, pull, clap, clap, clap etc

Always a favourite with mine
I'll try to find the actions on YouTube
This is the version we used, they do vary.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O4yu35xd-g

Jalima1108 Sat 16-Jun-18 15:41:11

Toddler groups where, as OldMeg says, you can stay.

Serkeen Sat 16-Jun-18 16:00:42

Hi Salis you could make play dough

Instructions

..Mix together the flour and salt.

..Mix together ½ cup of warm water with a few drops of food colouring. (food colouring not essential)

..Slowly pour the water into the flour mixture, stirring as you pour.

..Stir until combined, then knead with your hands until the flour is completely absorbed.

Serkeen Sat 16-Jun-18 16:10:34

Bubbles are ALWAYS a hit with my grandchildren Can be bought online so no need to go to the shops

from this company

www.bakerross.co.uk/pocket-money-toys/new

Balloons also a good past time that children love

Serkeen Sat 16-Jun-18 16:14:34

Also found this

Teaching your child to measure

PRACTICE WITH MEASURING CUPS

Set out bowls, measuring cups, and spoons for your child to explore.
Practice measuring with a variety of substances. Cheerios, rocks, dominoes, flour, water, dirt, sand – whatever you feel comfortable allowing your child to use. Substances that can be level (like water, flour, sand) are great for teaching the skill of line reading and making measuring cups level to accurately measure something.

Serkeen Sat 16-Jun-18 16:24:15

This is also good and will pass lots of time

www.elc.co.uk/learning-and-activity-books/my-complete-learning-pack/146168.html?cgid=e139#start=1

The Early Learning Centre website has lots and lots of ideas

notanan2 Sun 17-Jun-18 17:22:24

I think a montessori set up would suit your situation perfectly because you set it up in advance and then they child explores it independently.

Look on pinterest for ideas

Quite cheap & easy to do but brilliant for kids play & development but involves minimum exertion from yourself