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my daughter cant decide on boy's names for her first baby

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Laine69 Sat 30-Jun-18 18:12:34

Good evening
my daughter is expecting her first Baby Boy in December and cant decide on any names. she wants something unusual and has asked me if I can help?? Any ideas please.

Auntieflo Tue 03-Jul-18 22:29:11

When my brother was born, Mum was encouraged to call him by her maiden surname. As this was a Polish name, it was quickly discounted for a Saint's name.

Greenfinch Tue 03-Jul-18 22:09:25

Yes I have a cousin called Alexandrina. She is known as Ina.

Greenfinch Tue 03-Jul-18 22:07:33

smile Elrel. l quite like the name but it is not back in fashion yet.

mcem Tue 03-Jul-18 22:03:20

It was quite common to use the names of male family members but instead of using the female version (Peter and Patricia ) they took the male name and added 'ina'
I knew a Hughina and a Jamesina.

Elrel Tue 03-Jul-18 21:56:17

Greenfinch - Only this morning a friend was telling us about her Auntie Mina! She was Williamina, a Scot.

Teetime Tue 03-Jul-18 20:46:23

If I had a boy I would have named him Sebastian after a character on TV at the time played by Oliver Reed my all time passion.

varian Tue 03-Jul-18 20:13:00

If you were to tell us the surname, perhaps we could have a poll on GN.

We do need the surname to avoid embarrassing combinations of names or initials.

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Jul-18 19:54:18

pollyperkins shock
Poor girl!

There are some nice ship's names though!

Greenfinch Tue 03-Jul-18 19:53:02

Or even Ugley. I believe the Ugley WI had to change its name!

PamelaJ1 Tue 03-Jul-18 19:43:56

Good job those couples who choose their offsprings name because of where they were conceived didn’t go on holiday to Giggleswick or Pratt’s Bottom?

Greenfinch Tue 03-Jul-18 17:58:47

Thank goodness for that grin

pollyperkins Tue 03-Jul-18 17:45:02

In the 1960s when I lived in Portsmouth we knew a man who named his daughter after all tge navy ships he'd served on. It was something like: Fearless Illustrious Neptune Victory Porpoise.
People tended to mishear and call her Phyllis.

Greenfinch Tue 03-Jul-18 17:17:40

Many of the females in my family were called Williamina.By the time it got to my grandmother b 1889 it was spelt Wilhelmina.She was known as Meenie.

Grannyguitar Mon 02-Jul-18 20:12:28

The daftest one I heard of was Kreg. Apparently named because he was conceived in a K Registered Astra! Poor child will be so embarrassed when he grows up!

Auntieflo Mon 02-Jul-18 19:20:50

We had a Fred in the family, but only because her name was Winifred, known always to her DH as Fred.

annodomini Mon 02-Jul-18 19:11:19

My father, grandfather and great grandfather were all David. Had I been a boy I'd have been David IV. Then my sister arrived, then another sister. My granny was getting tetchy so my parents gave her name, Margaret, to my youngest sister as a second name. Mum's brother, father and various 'greats' were all John. Luckily the names Ethel and Ida (Maternal gran and her sister) have not been resurrected as far as I know.

Jawsnana Mon 02-Jul-18 17:35:08

My grandson is called Christopher but is known as Kit. I think it does depend on the surname is though.

jenni123 Mon 02-Jul-18 15:05:59

I was sitting in the bus behind 2 very mature ladies, one said to the other, 'Gladys, has your grand-daughter had her baby yet?, Gladys replied, 'Oh yes she had a little boy', Muriel asked, what did she call him?' Gladys answered 'Oh wait a minute, it is one of those new fangled names', 'Oh yes they called him ADAM ', I couldn't help but laugh.

muddynails Mon 02-Jul-18 14:49:40

If I had chosen a name to suit my daughter when she was born she would have been named beaty ( short for Beatrice) because she was bright red and looked pickled.
She is a beauty now though and tells me she would have liked the name Poppy

Peep Mon 02-Jul-18 10:04:01

I have a Rufus and a Wilfrid (second i rather than an e).

paddyann Mon 02-Jul-18 10:01:50

how about the surnames as first name trend...
Logan
Blair
Cameron
McKenzie
Craig
etc etc

lemongrove Mon 02-Jul-18 09:22:58

If you can’t find an unusual name you like, then make one up.A lot of people seem to! grin

lemongrove Mon 02-Jul-18 09:21:28

Frederick ( and indeed all German names made popular by Victoria and Albert) were ‘all the rage’ until the advent of the War in 1914, I suspect that after the war all those names were
Quietly dropped.

Grandma70s Mon 02-Jul-18 08:20:27

One of my relations, born in the early 20th century, was christened Bessie. She changed it to Elizabeth as soon as she could, and I only knew her as Elizabeth. When she was a little girl she came home from school talking about a friend apparently called Jumping Nellie. She was actually called Joan Pengelly.

Back to unusual names for boys. My granddaughter (6) kept talking about a friend apparently called Fergie. It turned out she was saying Ferdy. “His proper name is Ferdinand”.

PamelaJ1 Mon 02-Jul-18 07:34:05

Pen50- I so agree with you, our solicitor is called Sindy, what sort of name is that for a professional woman? I just keep thinking of the doll with a rather large head!
My DGS has the shortened version of a ‘proper’ name, why not just give him the longer version with more gravitas
( handy for him when he’s the CEO of a top company??)and then shorten it? I foresee a trend for lengthening coming on.