NordschleifeQueen,
Congratulations on soon becoming a Gran! What an exciting time and so many expectations! There are many threads on this forum about the role that one set of GPs plays, as opposed to the other.
As the mother of two women, I've been a maternal grandmother four times, so perhaps my perspective can help.
It is perfectly normal for daughters to prefer their mums (as opposed to their InLaws) especially when it's the birth of the first child. Childbirth is normal, safe and natural except when it's happening to your own 'baby girl'! The bond between mothers and daughters during this special time is not easily broken. It may seem as if maternal Grans get the front row seats more often, but they also share more worry, more responsibility, more time and more work!
The arrival of new baby is something to be clebrated and shared. Your role as a grandparent is just as important too. Get a sense of what your Son and DIL would like, then go out and pick a beautiful cot you can afford. Cherish this time and try to have fun in the process.....there's plenty of love to go around!
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.