My daughter is pregnant for the 4th time. 4th father. 2 of the 3 Dads are Total deadbeats with little to no involvement. Her Father and I are absolutely furious at her irresponsibility and selfishness. She has lived at home a majority of her life because she continues to have kids she can’t support on her own. We love our grandkids but we have put our retirement on hold to deal with the messes my daughter continues to get herself in. I’m totally fed up.
My husband wants to toss her out. We told her after her last baby 4 years ago that she is not to have any more kids while living here since she can’t support them on her own. She needs to work and become self sufficient, get child support and start living her life as a responsible adul and eventually get her own place. She seems to date 1 loser after another. We made it clear we don’t babysit her kids so she can go out and party and get pregnant.
She just recently went back to work 6 months ago after getting child care help from the state since her father and I cant be full time babysitters anymore. Well last month i asked her if she was pregnant again and sure enough she is. It’s a guy she met at work an they are already broke up. She’s on leave from work and on bedrest. Who knows if she still even has a job. Her last child had major health issues after she was born and I can’t believe we are going through this again.
It’s taken a lot to convince my husband not to toss her out 7 months pregnant.
This is beyond ridiculous. We love our grandkids and we don’t want them homeless but enough is enough.
Any words off wisdom for us?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic